Different strokes for different folks. There are so many reasons why someone might feel that a sensual massage is just what they need. I’d like to talk about one of these reasons and my reflections on them in this post.
In our journey of life, sometimes one needs to make a pit stop to rest and recover, before moving on once again when refreshed. This recovery pit stop can take many forms, and, I’ve seen MSM sessions (usually a series of them) play a part in this process. When done right, it can be a tremendous help on our way forward - to illustrate, let me share one of my personal experiences…
Read moreHi friends, how time flies! In a blink, we're almost at the end of 2023 and looking forward to 2024! Where did the year go?!?
While we're looking forward to sharing more in 2024 with like-minded folks and our SMA community, we would like to take a moment to look back on the past year and what we've done together.
2023 was a year where we truly exited COVID and managed to run 5 group sensual massage workshops, 4 collaborative N*kd Yoga x Sensual Massage classes, 1 sensual massage fireside chat, as well as several individually customised learning workshops.
We are excited to share upcoming plans for expanding horizons and enriching lives - in coaching, teaching and giving exceptional experiences around sensuality, sensory exploration, dominance / submission (read on) and more..!
Here’s what we have in store for 2024…
Read moreHi friends! Over the years, in my attempts to fully explore our sensual nature, I’ve been experimenting with tub soaks in various forms.
An intentional, mindful, tub soak can be very therapeutic and may even be done as a form of self-care; Something I'd argue is essential, in this fast-paced society we live in.
Here, I’ve collated many of my experiences, tips and tricks - in the hope that it inspires you to likewise explore. DO send me your own tips too, I intend to keep this article updated and refined as a reference we all can contribute to and share.
I’ve structured this resource by presenting a host of options that you can pick and choose from, and those options can combine into a unique sensory soak that works best for you! I’m using the lenses I've shared about in an earlier article “A Sensualist’s Toolkit” to evaluate the various sensory components every tub soak could incorporate - to leave no stone unturned for the ultimate sensual and sensory experiences.
Without further ado, let me dive into the various factors and considerations when planning a sensual tub soak (for ourselves or another person).
Read moreIn a recent article about Peak Experiences, I spoke about various types of sensorial and sensual exploration possible.
As a follow-up, I’ve penned down some personal notes about a framework you can use to design and plan your own lush, sensory experiences. These notes represent insights gathered over years of experimentation - I hope this gives you a peek into the thought behind our sessions and workshops, as well as further inspire you to use it for yourself!
The “Sensualist's Toolkit” helps to make almost any experience intensely sensual. By viewing each session through the lenses listed below, we easily generate new ideas to experiment, explore and keep things fresh!
Read moreRecent moments of self-reflection have inspired me to write and share some aspects of my mindset and inner journey with you. I’ve come to realise that much of what I seek - memories to last a lifetime (for myself, and for others) - is encapsulated in these two words, “Peak Experiences”.
Peak experiences remind us that a life worth living, is not defined by length, but by quality. Quality of life, simply being: “not merely to exist, but to feel alive”.
We are able to explore those feelings of euphoric transcendence a little closer to home too - within the universe of our minds! The practice of Meditative Sensual Massage (MSM) helps attune ourselves to such peak experiences - facilitated by a partner/coach/trainer we trust, and can flow with.
Read moreThis post aims to shed light about the full MSM process - details about what takes place from indication of interest, to a session, and finally, closure. Here, we hope to provide additional insight into our thought process, address any potential concerns, and share the reasonings behind our approach.
In the past 4 years, we’ve been running and fine-tuning the site as fellow enthusiasts and chief lifelong learners of the craft.
Over time, coupled with recent exchange and learning trips overseas, we’ve gained further insights into making things better - not just in the actual sensual massage itself, but also in the preparation, planning and efforts that take place before and after a session.
Read moreSharing a post that is pertinent, as we continue to deal with the effects of stress and isolation from an extended pandemic and post-pandemic new normal.
Goddess Ashley has kindly agreed to share excerpts below, with the full article available on her site.
The curtailment of social activities since the outbreak of the COVID-19 pandemic as Singapore moved from a circuit breaker, various stages of reopening, and now, Phase 2 (Heightened Alert), has proved challenging for many of us.
Read moreThere are many reasons why one might want to experience a sensual massage - curiosity, personal enjoyment, self-discovery, self-help / therapy and more.
In particular, self-discovery and therapy resonate deeply with me, where sessions have a meaning beyond purely momentary pleasure. Sometimes, it's because we're trying to figure something out about ourselves; Other times we discover our bodies and minds are capable of so much more; Yet other times, it may be an unlearning and removal of barriers towards accepting our sexual self, barriers of shame and guilt that block us from pleasure that is our right - empowerment and reclaiming ownership of our bodies and selves.
Read moreHi, Mike here :)
Penning down some thoughts here about how my approach towards giving sensual massage (and sensual dominance) has changed over time. I've always wanted to give nothing but the very best experiences possible, and looking back, one thing stands out for having the greatest impact on session outcomes.
Read moreSensual massages can be much more than what most people expect..
There is so much to cover in sensory exploration that it would take many hours to exhaust just the initial possibilities.
Here is a sneak peek at some items we currently use / recommend!
Read moreHi! we’ll be listing down some resources that will be useful in enhancing the entire sensual massage experience. In general, these cover ambience, scent, oils for use and more.
This page will be updated periodically, so check back for additional information and resources!
Massage Oil - Music / Sound - Ambient Lighting / etc.
Read moreRecently a fellow tantrika shared a quote with me and, though a little long, is worthwhile pondering.
In particular, because the description of one type of orgasm is close to what we would like to achieve in an ideal meditative, sensual and yoni massage session.
It requires active participation, practice, training and even predisposition for the person receiving the massage though, so no worries or judgement if any particular session doesn’t get there. We still enjoy the journey taken and any detours along the way.
Read moreMeditative Sensual Massage (MSM) is often a wonderfully affirming and rejuvenating experience. Not only is it pleasurable and enjoyable, but often it provides a vehicle for our personal transformation, self-realization and spiritual growth.
It is not surprising then, that regular practice of MSM in its fullest form (with aspects of physical and mental connection, affirmation, touch) can serve as a healing, cleansing and freeing force. Especially so, because we live in a society that is touch-averse, where physical contact is shunned, avoided or feared. Thus, many of us already suffer from a deficit of touch, and restoring that deficit brings us back into balance again.
Usually, healing and rejuvenation happens gradually over time, and is not the main objective of a session. In some cases, however, the healing aspect takes centerstage. In this series we cover aspects of healing via meditation, touch and massage.
Read moreAt first glance, sensual massage doesn’t seem to have much in common with bondage and dominance - but that is untrue and only on superficial examination.
Meditative sensual massage (MSM) places emphasis on our mind as much as body - this encompasses understanding of your partner(s) and their aspects of attraction and arousal. It is definitely not limited to only gentle or mild exploration and play.
This article provides some ideas for bondage & dominance play as part of sensual massage and sensual exploration.
Read morePothos and I have decided to share a post on female orgasms for reference - material here has been compiled from internet sources as well as from personal experience. Much has been written on this topic, but many articles tend focus on specific techniques or body parts and fewer on more fundamental underlying principles behind the female orgasm.
Thus, in this article, we attempt to take a more holistic approach in identifying some universal principles and guidelines that can help in achieving and enhancing the female orgasm.
Read moreWe at SensualMassageArt.com have been asked countless times about what goes on during a (meditative) sensual massage session - here's a detailed post which outlines the flow of a MSM session, our thought process, and why we do what we do!
It's written in an instructional manner, to share insight into what goes on in the therapist's mind, and as basic starter material for those of you that might want to embark on exploring sensuality with another - feel free to try it out and give us feedback on what's described here!
Read moreI've decided to do a combined post with my co-massage therapist about an interesting variation of sensual massage - that is, a 2 guys, 4 hands, ultra-decadent and hot variation! ;)
This post contains instructions for the basic 2 guys, 4 hands massage process - feel free to try it out and give us feedback on what's described here!
Read moreWhy write about consistency? This is something that has been brought to my attention after giving a number of classes, sessions, and has also been raised as a question to me multiple times.
I'm writing about consistency in the context of giving G-spot vaginal massages and approaches to build up and, finally, orgasm.
Read moreIn exploring meditative sensual massage, I'd like to cover some topics that will be helpful to get us up and running quickly. After all, we learn best by actually experiencing it!
First, I'll cover the critical components for a successful session and lay down the outline of topics we will be covering over subsequent posts.
Read more
