Different strokes for different folks. There are so many reasons why someone might feel that a sensual massage is just what they need. I’d like to talk about one of these reasons and my reflections on them in this post.
In our journey of life, sometimes one needs to make a pit stop to rest and recover, before moving on once again when refreshed. This recovery pit stop can take many forms, and, I’ve seen MSM sessions (usually a series of them) play a part in this process. When done right, it can be a tremendous help on our way forward - to illustrate, let me share one of my personal experiences…
Read moreHi friends, how time flies! In a blink, we're almost at the end of 2023 and looking forward to 2024! Where did the year go?!?
While we're looking forward to sharing more in 2024 with like-minded folks and our SMA community, we would like to take a moment to look back on the past year and what we've done together.
2023 was a year where we truly exited COVID and managed to run 5 group sensual massage workshops, 4 collaborative N*kd Yoga x Sensual Massage classes, 1 sensual massage fireside chat, as well as several individually customised learning workshops.
We are excited to share upcoming plans for expanding horizons and enriching lives - in coaching, teaching and giving exceptional experiences around sensuality, sensory exploration, dominance / submission (read on) and more..!
Here’s what we have in store for 2024…
Read moreIn a recent article about Peak Experiences, I spoke about various types of sensorial and sensual exploration possible.
As a follow-up, I’ve penned down some personal notes about a framework you can use to design and plan your own lush, sensory experiences. These notes represent insights gathered over years of experimentation - I hope this gives you a peek into the thought behind our sessions and workshops, as well as further inspire you to use it for yourself!
The “Sensualist's Toolkit” helps to make almost any experience intensely sensual. By viewing each session through the lenses listed below, we easily generate new ideas to experiment, explore and keep things fresh!
Read moreThis post aims to shed light about the full MSM process - details about what takes place from indication of interest, to a session, and finally, closure. Here, we hope to provide additional insight into our thought process, address any potential concerns, and share the reasonings behind our approach.
In the past 4 years, we’ve been running and fine-tuning the site as fellow enthusiasts and chief lifelong learners of the craft.
Over time, coupled with recent exchange and learning trips overseas, we’ve gained further insights into making things better - not just in the actual sensual massage itself, but also in the preparation, planning and efforts that take place before and after a session.
Read moreHi, Mike here :)
Penning down some thoughts here about how my approach towards giving sensual massage (and sensual dominance) has changed over time. I've always wanted to give nothing but the very best experiences possible, and looking back, one thing stands out for having the greatest impact on session outcomes.
Read moreMeditative Sensual Massage (MSM) is often a wonderfully affirming and rejuvenating experience. Not only is it pleasurable and enjoyable, but often it provides a vehicle for our personal transformation, self-realization and spiritual growth.
It is not surprising then, that regular practice of MSM in its fullest form (with aspects of physical and mental connection, affirmation, touch) can serve as a healing, cleansing and freeing force. Especially so, because we live in a society that is touch-averse, where physical contact is shunned, avoided or feared. Thus, many of us already suffer from a deficit of touch, and restoring that deficit brings us back into balance again.
Usually, healing and rejuvenation happens gradually over time, and is not the main objective of a session. In some cases, however, the healing aspect takes centerstage. In this series we cover aspects of healing via meditation, touch and massage.
Read moreAt first glance, sensual massage doesn’t seem to have much in common with bondage and dominance - but that is untrue and only on superficial examination.
Meditative sensual massage (MSM) places emphasis on our mind as much as body - this encompasses understanding of your partner(s) and their aspects of attraction and arousal. It is definitely not limited to only gentle or mild exploration and play.
This article provides some ideas for bondage & dominance play as part of sensual massage and sensual exploration.
Read morePothos and I have decided to share a post on female orgasms for reference - material here has been compiled from internet sources as well as from personal experience. Much has been written on this topic, but many articles tend focus on specific techniques or body parts and fewer on more fundamental underlying principles behind the female orgasm.
Thus, in this article, we attempt to take a more holistic approach in identifying some universal principles and guidelines that can help in achieving and enhancing the female orgasm.
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