My (Mike's) personal recollections of amazing moments shared, published with permission of all person(s) involved. Though hosted on SMA’s site, these writings may not specifically be about sensual massage but are simply my journey, experiences and musings about life, the universe and everything in-between.
Recently, I had a successful sensual domination session with someone totally new to kink. This is my story of that experience and her perspective of this session is shown in the screenshot shared towards the end of this article (reproduced with her permission).
I was contacted by S, a new, pretty inexperienced but enthusiastic sounding lady that wanted to explore elements of bondage and soft domination.
An existing client, we've had a sensual massage session before, but this time, S requested to be tied up and to explore being bound as part of her personal journey in kink.
Hearing that immediately triggered my senses, and so I probed further. I realized that her request to be bound was part of a deeper desire to serve, be submissive, and to also be degraded during play - all of which were new to her! Thus, I made doubly sure in the pre-briefing/consult to discuss safety concerns, potential scenarios and our soft and hard boundaries that need to be respected.
As S was new I suggested we begin with a relaxing, slow, sensual massage to kick things off. This would help us to build up connection and trust, especially since we had only met once prior to this.
Massaging her back, I began by alternating smooth, firm strokes with soft, featherlight touches. Slowly but surely as I took control, I could sense the tension seeping out of her body.
As we continued the massage with more full body to body contact, relaxation began to transform into arousal - occasional moans involuntarily escaping from her lips, the bucking motion of her hips and quickened breaths, telltale signs that she was enjoying the buildup and intensity.
Sensing that S was ready, I decided to first condition her to feeling comfortable with touching me, especially at erogenous zones of my body. Looking in her eyes, I grabbed her hands and placed them directly on my cock, saying: "Here, hold this and get used to feeling it - because you'll be touching it a lot tonight". smirk
That triggered in her a visible arousal response and suddenly, all shyness seemed to melt away! Emboldened by the permission to touch and stroke my cock, S started to explore with a fervor I did not expect - but welcomed.
Her enthusiasm was infectious and we were making progress into the right headspace. Her mental blocks to expressive freedom had been sufficiently taken down (a lot of pre-work in discussion and negotiation and clear communication helped immensely). As a first timer to everything domination or BDSM based, it was extremely important that I keep track of and manage her mental state for her benefit.
"Kneel - I want you to put your hands behind your back, I'm going to tie them together", I commanded. In her sub-zone, S complied enthusiastically. I quickly took the rope prepared, rigged a double column tie on her wrists and came back to stand in front of the now-helpless lady.
"That's a good girl. Now, lick me all over, I want you to explore every inch of my balls, shaft, tip and show me how much you love it". S needed no additional instructions to happily service me, kneeling, her enthusiasm showing in the occasional guttural choking sounds that occurred when she tried to take me deeper into her mouth.
Holding her head with both my hands in her hair, I started to control her movement and use her, physically, like a sloppy, dripping wet, sex toy. Sounds of ecstasy filled the room - I remember thinking - it's lucky this 5* hotel room is big and pretty damn sound isolated! No matter, we're going to have no-holds-barred fun and if anyone might happen to hear us or *gasp* see us - lucky them ;)
Minutes later, with her hands still tied, I manhandled her into a supine, face up position, placing her head over the edge of the bed. Tilting her head back, her throat formed a nice contiguous column that happened to be very conveniently located for my use ;)
As I slowly fucked her mouth with a controlled deepthroat, I began fingering her. "Wow, look at how DRIPPING WET your pussy is! That's my beautiful SLUT - tell me what you enjoy?", I demanded.
"I love your cock!"
"Louder! I can't hear you"
"I LOVE YOUR COCK!!!". Her trained response slowly increasing in intensity as S went deeper into subspace, both of us enjoying her compliance. I could feel her visceral joy in submitting her body, and her pleasure to my control. It was a heady and massive turn-on.
(Post-session, we both reflected on how arousing, hot, and mind-blowing it was, to be able to *let go* so fully in that flow of the moment. Counter-intuitively, she didn't feel disrespected, and after the session was over, instead felt empowered and sexy! 😍)
Penetrating her with my ring and index finger, I started to press deep inside her and quickly located her a-spot. Bringing up the intensity, she began to feel overwhelmed by the waves of pleasure that coursed through her body.
"Keep sucking that dick!" I reminded her. She seemed to have forgotten the service component of her responsibility and I made a mental note to spank her afterwards as a part of our play, to 'guide and correct'.
"Good girl, you pleased me well". It's important to reward where reward is due. Her attempts to deepthroat and suck my dick had been pretty much up to par - definitely above passing grade and a quick learner! 😜
"Now, I want you to cum while sucking me off", I commanded while increasing the in-out motions of my now thoroughly wet and sloppy fingers hitting her a-spot. I loved the squishy, sopping, noises, her wet sex inviting me further in.
The thought of my command almost made her cum, and I could tell from her involuntary responses, noises and motions that she was close to the edge.
Finally, adding in some clit stimulation on top of a-spot, the overwhelming sensations washed through her body as she began thrashing and moaning, intensely and incoherently. Interestingly, her incoherence managed to better convey that subspace pleasure she experienced, more than any words could describe. A sight both wonderful and beautiful to behold!
From then on, the session proceeded smoothly - once headspace was achieved the rest fell into place easily. We then focused on exploring other positions, some with a more dominant feel to them, others, with a more humiliating / degrading feel to them.
Several positions and about an hour later, we were lying in a pile of sweat, goo, liquids that smelled of sex, both totally spent. I remember thinking that it was lucky I skipped cardio in the morning! Such a random thought! 😂
As aftercare, I gave her some back rubs, hugs, cuddles and verbally reassured her that I enjoyed sharing the experience with her. I also reassured her that my respect for her was at an all time high, AND anything degrading in the course of the session should be enjoyed in the right context there and then.
Lastly, a nice warm shower to help get her ready for bed - how sensual and reconnective that was afterward!
Post-session, we compared notes and agreed that we both enjoyed the play time and that there was potential to dig in further and deeper... More sessions and stories for another day, perhaps!
Cheers, Mike 😘😘😘
P.s. If you enjoyed this, and think you might want to experience a sensual domination session - Hmu! I'm on my own personal journey and looking to explore further in this area, should we click. 🙏🙏🙏
S replied with a review - her perspective of this session is shown in the screenshot shared below (reproduced with her permission).