My recollections and thoughts about a double-Dom sensual dominance session. In some circles, this would be considered a threesome (MMF) experience, but it goes much deeper, further, with many additional nuances that make it different than a usual one.

As always, my thoughts revolve around female empowerment, consent, and efforts to help grow a more open and inclusive society.

Lately, I’ve discovered a newfound passion for coaching and teaching - because that spark, the understanding you see in their eyes, the ‘aha!’ moment where it all falls into place - that is a truly amazing moment to share! An achievement, not of your own, but of connecting a small part of something greater and bigger than yourself, with someone else.

A recent session with couple L & S helped to re-ignite that spark, and inspired me to keep on digging deeper, learning and communicating more. I’m stoked to share (with their permission), post-session feedback that contributed to more positive moments, intense, intimate and deeper connections between them!

Before the current round of restrictive measures kicked in, I had a great session that was both challenging yet rewarding and enjoyable with fellow Fetlifer Sue.

Rewarding and enjoyable because we managed to connect and have a good experience. One that went beyond a momentary ‘flash-in-the-pan’ pleasure, combining elements of self-discovery, mindset change as well as building great memories.

Challenging because - my session brief was for an all-external session without any penetration. In a way, it felt like asking me to compose a song but, only use ‘do, mi, fa, so, ti’ and leave out the notes ‘re, la’. Or to please cook a tasty, nutritional meal but, without using any salt and spices. Certainly, it is doable, however some richness in experience may potentially be lost.

Sometimes, the weeks are long and work is demanding - we all get this occasionally (hopefully not all the time!). I remember the run-up to my recent session with @facetsoflife as being very hectic and, internally, I wasn't happy with the amount of time I had set aside beforehand to plan out our session.

Life's like that though - sometimes the going gets tough and we just have to find it within us to make what we can, with what we have. At times like these, going back to fundamentals and drawing from experience really helps.

Thought of sharing some interesting and totally random facts about myself.

Due to the need to keep some things a bit more private, these are really just the tip of the iceberg for me - there are other more interesting tidbits I can only share in person too! 😜

There are many reasons why one might want to experience a sensual massage - curiosity, personal enjoyment, self-discovery, self-help / therapy and more.

In particular, self-discovery and therapy resonate deeply with me, where sessions have a meaning beyond purely momentary pleasure. Sometimes, it's because we're trying to figure something out about ourselves; Other times we discover our bodies and minds are capable of so much more; Yet other times, it may be an unlearning and removal of barriers towards accepting our sexual self, barriers of shame and guilt that block us from happiness that is our right - empowerment and reclaiming ownership of our bodies and selves.

A recent conversation and session with @Lucifer_star (LS), reminded me about some of these aspects that are so important. Our initial discussion was about enjoying a simple sensual massage, but when we started to dig down deeper into the reasons behind wanting to experience it, one reason that emerged was a curiosity about orgasms - and her difficulties in experiencing it. That actually got me pretty interested, expectant and slightly anxious about our session, because sessions like these are more complicated and tougher than usual - but also potentially more rewarding. Her take on this session can be found here.

Recently, @SkyAura gave me a very interesting session request that she wrote about here. That session and our conversation after, got me to thinking about writing about my sensual experiences with her - one of the most sensitive, responsive and unique individuals I know.

As a very sensual person, touch and sound can be amazing trigger points towards orgasm. And our session ‘challenge’ was to give her a satisfying sensual massage that was 100% external without any internal stimulation (no yoni massage components etc).

A month ago, I had a great sensual massage session with @EMJean-Grey (EMJ). From our conversations after, as well as her responses during the session, it was clear that there was another side of her that we didn't manage to explore - yet.

We discussed it further afterward and decided thus to arrange another session to try out a more dominant, bdsm-based, yet sensual experience.

Read @EMJean-Grey's take on the session here!

There she stood, it had been a while since we last met, but I still remember her distinctive presence - the air of an ingénue with a brash and refreshing innocence, juxtaposed against the weight of a wise old soul, a sense of maturity that belied her youthful expression.

She, (let's call her A) was brilliant, captivating, gorgeous, with a hidden darkness that made her mind so fascinating; Hints of depths to be discovered, depths she did not even realise were present inside, depths that we would explore together...

And she was also - mine, delivered to my hotel room, to be trained, moulded, degraded and used for my pleasure, as hers. My plaything for the night.

We greeted with an embrace, one that quickly transitioned to anything but chaste, as my hands moved to touch and reclaim that body, my hands wandering over her full breasts, lithe legs and juicy pussy - hands that said, "You're mine, whatever I touch is mine".