My (Mike's) personal recollections of amazing moments shared, published with permission of all person(s) involved. Though hosted on SMA’s site, these writings may not specifically be about sensual massage but are simply my journey, experiences and musings about life, the universe and everything in-between.
Preface
Sharing about a recent session that was amazingly memorable, even unique for a first time sensual massage.
Not surprisingly, with first timers, sometimes it feels like I'm massaging a log 😅 - because we tense up when there's some anxiety, even fear, in totally new situations. And that's ok, it's natural too. How I address such fear is to acknowledge it (NOT ignore it) and together, slowly work our way through it - replacing fear with comfort, acceptance and warmth.
Of course, I always exhort that responding and removing barriers will help us to get the most out of sessions - because it can feed a virtuous cycle of increasing intensity and passion between giver and receiver.
Usually though, it's hard to truly and fully unlock this in a first session, simply because it takes a while to build connection.
My session with the lovely @EMJean-Grey was one particularly amazing and memorable experience however, simply because we managed to unlock this elusive responsiveness to a degree that I had never seen before. To @EMJean-Grey's credit, a large part of this is because of her very orgasmic nature and her amazing body sensitivity that's uncommon and beautiful to behold! 👋😆
Read @EMJean-Grey's take on the session here!
Beginning
We met for a light dinner, I remember enjoying our conversation and finding out more about EMJ over some finger food and drinks. Definitely came away from it with a better understanding and appreciation of what drives her, and I must say, her heart and passion for others does shine through.
We shared much over several topics, but discretion leaves me to keep this part intentionally vague. One thing that's relevant to this account, though, was that she had extensive dance experience in several styles - leading to her level of body awareness as well as an intuitive understanding of moving together in harmony.
Making our way back to the session location, I took a while to setup and meanwhile, we did a short pre-briefing - much had already been spoken earlier. There was a familiarity / comfortability that's not usually as strong in first time sessions, aided by the fact that we had chat over a period of time, and in our conversation over dinner. For one, I certainly felt I understood her preferences and boundaries better.
Most of the time, during an initial session there would be more talking (e.g. notifying the receiver when I'm moving to another body part etc.) but in this one, we did not talk much and pretty much got into the zone, and in sync silently, no words required! That was a nice surprise!
Starting with a back massage, her body first showed signs of stirring very early on, with the shoulders and neck triggering some movement and quiet sighs of contentment that I was glad to see - it meant that EMJ was getting more comfortable with my touch, and had started to open up and allow herself to go with the flow.
Responsiveness
In my pre-brief (and as shared earlier), I always remind receivers that we are here to go with the flow and if it feels natural, to not suppress the urge and open up to express themselves - the freedom and empowerment it brings is truly amazing, and, the better we do it, the more we can get out of the session.
I do also share that I'm comfortable with receivers responding - touching, hugging and kissing me literally anywhere and it's all good - we simply need to seek that natural flow together.
Very few first timers, though, are able to understand the depth of what this means so quickly - and it sometimes takes a while for someone new to start responding in the moment. Perhaps it was EMJ's extensive dance background that helped us to quickly get in sync to the beat of those moment(s).
Frisson
Head wraps triggered the first time she reached over to touch and caress me, and we enjoyed the mutual connection that it brought, simply holding and stroking each other, and, appreciating the skinship shared. Fully wrapping my arms and chest around her head, I felt her body tremble all over, as my breath and lips roamed all over her hair, cheek, neck and oh-so-sensitive ears...
We had entered a more sensual exploration phase and, as part of the movement, I had to reposition myself for me to fully envelop her back, butt and sides with my chest and hands. As I moved away, EMJ literally shifted her body to maintain close contact - where I moved, she followed!
Truly reminiscent of a dance, I thoroughly enjoyed the components of me leading and her following. This was another unusual first time session occurrence - usually, most receivers would not respond with such macro movements, if at all. I picked up on that and we began to really dance.
Lead and respond
As barriers fell, we touched with a familiarity and fervor that continued to intensify. Raking my fingernails over her back and her sides, I started to elicit louder gasps and moans, as well as upraised hips that I was happy to grind against.
Back, buttocks, head, shoulders, feet, calves, outer and inner thighs - we progressed through each body part, somehow massaged individually, yet connected holistically to her whole being and our synchronicity. Heavy pressure, light touches, caresses, kisses, scratches, tapping, breathing - all kinds of sensory stimuli were also combined as we continued to dance to the beat that began to accelerate.
Body to body (B2B) - pressing my chest against her back, I raked my fingernails all along her sides and leading down to her pubic area (accessed via the back). I recall her first series of loud moans and body shudders - an involuntary shaking that went beyond trembling - when I exerted full body pressure and then lightly stroked her already soaking wet clit from behind.
Teasing and teasing and teasing yet again. Tantalizing EMJ with a hint of things to come was the name of the game. Watching her squirm and moan in delight and pleasure was such a treat. I remember wondering if she would be frustrated by such merciless teasing, but, after the session, I managed to confirm that she loved every second of it!
Chest and Yoni
It was time to turn over from her prone position. This time around, intensity levels flared once more as I had direct access to her frontal areas including her extremely sensitive breasts and nipples. EMJ can take quite heavy pressure and pinching and biting her nipples elicited very intense pleasure responses. We continued to explore the chest, tummy and inner thigh region, enjoying the pleasurable sensations as well as each other's presence and being in those moments...
Putting my arm around EMJ to fully hug her face to face, I started to move my other hand down towards her yoni, maintaining full body contact and connection for the yoni massage. The yoni, internal and external, was fully and slowly explored with a combination of fingers, vibrators and wand (nJoy Pure Wand) in varying combinations and intensity. Both orgasms and squirting ensued, multiple times - I think we lost count (or rather, who's counting?) - the orgasmic haze and energy was simply intoxicating and we indulged freely.
Usually, first time sessions end there, but the dance continued on this time... Next, we shared a long period of ecstatic intimacy that was intense and left the bed soaking wet with all our bodily fluids - sweat included! Not to put too fine a point on things, we took our time to fully enjoy the sensations and, finally collapsed in a pile of exhausted but fully sated bodies.
Coda
Lying down, we took another good chunk of time to catch our breaths, chill and just bask in each other's presence and in the afterglow. Throughout, the most memorable aspects of the entire session was our teamwork and synchronicity, EMJ's responsiveness that was off the charts, as well as her sensitivity to touch.
Closing off the session, we did a mutual scrubdown and showered together, both smiling and happy in the unique dance we shared.
My takeaway from this session was the magic that occurred when we managed to remove barriers to expression and simply responded naturally to each other. 😍
Read @EMJean-Grey's take on the session here!
My wish for you, dear reader is that you do have life experiences like this too! How? Many roads lead to Rome - and these practices below could help one to grasp and experience such precious moments better: Practice mindfulness; Pair yoga; Come for our sensual massage workshops; Perhaps a separate short article on this in future! 👍👌
Cheers, Mike 😘😘😘