My (Mike's) personal recollections of amazing moments shared, published with permission of all person(s) involved. Though hosted on SMA’s site, these writings may not specifically be about sensual massage but are simply my journey, experiences and musings about life, the universe and everything in-between.
Recently, @SkyAura gave me a very interesting session request that she wrote about here. That session and our conversation after, got me to thinking about writing about my sensual experiences with her - one of the most sensitive, responsive and unique individuals I know.
As a very sensual person, touch and sound can be amazing trigger points towards orgasm. And our session ‘challenge’ was to give her a satisfying sensual massage that was 100% external without any internal stimulation (no yoni massage components etc).
For those into BDSM - pure Tantric-style sensuality may be considered too ‘tame’ or ‘vanilla’ - however, to me, this is akin to comparing sugar and salt - both are essential ingredients that contribute a richness to the taste in our lives. Having only one or the other alone, is missing out on richness in our lives.
BDSM to me, deals with the darker elements and out-of-this-world fantasies we may have, and its intensity and appeal generally lies in triggering our wanton desires and feelings, with a freedom that is mind-blowing when experienced with person(s) you trust.
Tantric sensuality on the other hand, deals with a holistic mental and physical wholeness, depth in exploring our mental universe, and the many-layered / textured practice of mindfulness and being fully present in the moment.
Surprisingly, these two are not contradictory in nature, and while some elements of each might appear antagonistic towards each other, it is possible to combine both aspects into one - this is an area I’m still exploring!
In other words, a back to basics session with loads of sensual touch, mindfulness, being present in the moment and deep connection.
Beginning
We started the usual back massage with a slight twist, done specially by request - applying oil by slowly dripping it, drop by drop, onto her skin.
S is so naturally sensitive, that simply dripping oil can trigger tremors and, continued over time, will build up into full-body shaking orgasms 😍. Truly amazing and breath-taking to behold! At the same time, it is really easy to over-stimulate her, and most people don't realise how overwhelming many sensations are for S - less is truly more. Some of these orgasms also require a prerequisite connection to trigger - an understanding and trust in each other that allows one to truly ‘let go’.
As the scented oil dripped on S’s shoulders and slowly trickled down her back, she shivered involuntarily - a light moan of anticipation escaping her lips. I smiled to myself, this session was going to be interesting 😈.
Adjusting all my touch components a notch lighter, some contact was literally just my skin gliding smoothly over hers - and both of us, enjoying the pure blissful sensation of that mutual connection.
Light to moderate pressure was used on her mid-back and shoulders, and lighter pressure on her neck. Some trigger points here, and ‘the shakes’ started up again as I snuggled up against her and used one hand to massage the nape of her neck... I took my time to alternate between massage and lighter touch components, sometimes triggering body tremors, but keeping it less intense at this stage.
After a long time spent working on her back, I moved in to her butt region, moving with firm but slow and even strokes across her buttocks, thighs and lower back. I enjoyed her subtle response to my touch there, hips raising and back arching slightly at certain touch trigger points...
Head wraps and connection
Those of you that know me, know I love to give head wraps as it’s intensely connective, comforting and very ‘in the moment’. Alongside head wraps, I took the time to give her a hug as well as receive her reciprocated hugs. There's not many things more wonderful than a big hug that's welcomed and receiving a big hug in return! Simply giving and receiving, appreciating the full person and taking the time to whisper beautiful but naughty thoughts in her ear - set the mental stage for the rest of our session.
As I switched between a subtle mix of light pressure-based massage strokes to light scratches and feather touches, I could hear her gasp and moan at times, when the sensations became too pleasurable, too enjoyable not to respond. Slowly, all restraint goes out the window as we start to move in harmony, her skin tingling at my every touch.
Turning around, I improvised a quick body to body (usually this happens a little later in a session) with a touch so light, it’s grazing across the hairs on her skin, and she’s sensing me from the micro-sensations transmitted by the movement of these surface hairs on her skin. Sliding up her back with my lips breathing hot air against her spine, I finally get to her neck as she cries out suddenly in pleasure. Another trigger.
The shaking begins again, and I lie, chest against her back, holding her tight, letting the pleasure waves flow through her - I hold on, riding out the storm. S can often have orgasms stacked within orgasms, with these, non-stop waves of pleasure flow one after another, and can keep going for looonnggg (too long and it’s very tiring though!).
Throughout the session, I regulate the number of times and the intensity of these touch sensations, exploring every part of her body and re-discovering more trigger points as we go along (I’m keeping the actual points and how to trigger them a little vague as they can be quite private to S).
Lull-abye
Letting the intensity drop a little, I push down her bucking hips and whisper:”hold on, there’s more”, then disengaging our skinship for some moments. Placing my hand on the sacrum region of her spinal column, I slow down my breathing and we start to re-visit mindfulness, mental relaxation and re-centering components of a sensual massage.
With a simple foot massage, I slowly began to knead and release the tension stored in her feet from our day to day movement. There are trigger points here, too, I recalled, but I mostly avoided them as I wanted to focus on relaxation and a release of stress. This continued as I slowly moved up her body to her calves, and spent time working on her calves, one leg at a time.
This is usually the most relaxing part of a session, and several times before, S had dozed off at this point, which I take as such a compliment (which woman will fall asleep naked, in your hands, unless she has a very strong trust in you?!?) sleeping or dozing off, I still continue to focus on giving her that rhythmic, slow, steady strokes that truly lull one to a heavenly rest.
Moving up to the hamstrings, I increase the pressure there by a little bit - as they are major muscle groups that can take more, and also to help signal a slow change in mood and intensity. We’re going to start building up again, slow and steady does it.
Thighs
Keeping the pressure on the back of the legs (and avoiding the inner thighs for now), I slowly help to relax her thigh region. However I could tell that she was responding to touch in that area, with micro-movements of her hips and legs, telling me she’s starting to want more. I purposely held back, however, prolonging and enjoying the teasing aspects of the session, making her desire more and more.
Eventually, I moved to the inner thigh region, slowly making circular strokes up her inner thighs, from the knees upwards. Reaching nearer to her pussy, it was already pretty soaking wet and dripping. Our responsive movements and dance began again, her hips and moans demanding more, and me, teasing and pulling on the brakes throughout! Holding back along the way, I waited and observed - when her desire, starting from a want, turned into a need - that was when I would take the progressive next step forward.
Body to body - round 2
Eventually, it was time, when our desires reached a peak, to move on to the body to body segment. The way she responded, auditorily and physically was such a turn on to me as well, that I found myself fully aroused by this point too!
Sliding up her legs and back, I found myself once again flat with my chest against her back, and as I moved upwards, my erect dick touched her inner thighs and raked across her pussy lips. Load moans ensued, as I put pressure on her back, lightly pinning her down, and continued to rub the head of my shaft against her soaking wet pussy and clit. Reaching around underneath her, I also added my fingertips into the mix of stimulating sensations felt down below.
The shaking, already there, intensifies immediately. With some convenient placement, I position myself so that S’s shaking continues to rub my dick against her pussy and especially, her clit. In this position, I could ride S’s orgasmic for minutes on end, non-stop.
Keeping to the boundaries discussed, there was no penetration (also, by this time, I already had a condom on, in case you were wondering about that!) but, there was a whole lot of intense skinship and stimulation!
In this session, we rode the wave for about 5 to 8 mins of continuous orgasmic bliss, before it was time to turn over for the next segment of the massage.
Head wraps - round 2
On her back, we started with some relaxing massage strokes to help clear the lymphatic area around the chest. Some additional attention to her shoulders and nape of neck too, from behind, using a lifting motion to help press and release tension. It was pretty calming and enjoyable, rather than moans, sighs of contentment were heard.
Moving my head closer to hers, from above, I began to explore touch around her head, neck and ears. Again, arousal started to rise, with some mild trembling and exclamations of pleasure. In particular, I enjoyed the simple act of presence, of me being close to her, head to head, our breathing audible to each other. Basking in this, I proceeded to move on to the chest and tummy massage...
Chest and tummy
Slowly, I moved my palms down between her breasts towards her pubic mound. A very slow, deliberate stroke that served to slowly coat her skin with oil. With every tiny millimeter of movement, I sensed trembling underneath my fingertips, and the aching desire start to build once again. Once her chest and stomach was fully coated, I used circular motions, with light touches and a scratching action to massage the soft tissue at the stomach area. Her eyes closed, the sense of touch and sound was amplified, every touch an explosion going off in her inner world.
Next, I slowly ran circles around her breasts, from the outside, slowly teasing and making my way closer and closer to her sensitive nipples. Circling closer, until almost touching her nipples, before pulling back for another round of teasing and building of tension. What a pleasure it was to see how she responded, how she desired more touch, how she wanted more of everything!
Finally, we got to the nipples and moans involuntarily escaped from her lips. As the intensity built, I quickly switched position - a face to face hug that allowed me to squeeze her tightly and closely to me, as well as access her sensitive neck and ears. Reaching downward to the beautiful sloppy mess below, I lightly stroked her clit while holding her tight to me, and kissing her neck and ears - trigger another round of shakes. We took time to explore body to body from the front as well as enjoy the multiple shaking orgasms that ensued in this position.
A beautiful close
At this point, we were both touch-satiated and the session started to draw naturally to a close. After some final residual shakes, we ended our session with a thigh massage and then a firm hug.
It was a fascinating and pretty unique session that I thoroughly enjoyed throughout! Many thanks to @SkyAura for suggesting this! Her comments on this session here.
Cheers, Mike 😘😘😘