Gabe / Pothos

Hi, nice to meet you! :)
Over the last decade, having worked with numerous communities and practicing Meditative Sensual Massage, there's a lot of wonderfully positive things I’d love to share and give back to the community.

I pursue holistic multi-disciplinary sex education, held in safe spaces for celebrating, learning, and appreciating our bodies.

Currently, I’m exploring somatic sexological bodywork as a framework for holding space and facilitating transformative experiences. Complementing this are frameworks and methods from various leading authors and experts respected for their work in trauma and healing, especially within the fields of sexual wellness.

If you’re looking to learn more about your body, process and heal from trauma, or wanting to celebrate the wonders within you, let’s get started with a friendly chat! Collaborations are also very much welcomed <3

Resources:
1) Institute of Somatic Sexology (ISS) and Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education (ISSE)
2) Brené Brown, Gabor Maté, Esther Perel, and Emily Nagoski

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Media & Collaborations

Why share with the media interview or collaborate?
It has always been my passion to educate, guide, and encourage learning. If you share in my values, please feel free to reach out. I’ve also written a short synopsis for the various interviews below, check them out :)

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SMA’s interview with VICE media, "What It's Like to Get a Massage From Singapore's Female Orgasm Expert" - sharing our vision of fostering community and facilitating a holistic movement through education, empowerment, and enrichment.

@th360exp’s interview with RICE media, “This Polyamorous Commune in Singapore Aims to Help People Find Authenticity in Relationships” - the importance of open communication, honest & accurate sex ed, and how we can foster deep and holistic interpersonal experiences.

I’m an approved reviewer for TENGA and Iroha, Japan’s no.1 sex toy brand!

Joining together with Sarah Tang (Sex Coach) and co-host Prescott (Intimacy Co-Ordinator) on how mindful masturbation can not just feel good but help us to reconnect with ourselves. We become more conscious of our pleasure as we explore our body more holistically.

My journey and practice of MSM has been fulfilling. Everyday, I realize that learning never ends and continue to pursue growth in my craft. I’m appreciative and aware that much of my success comes from my network and following, word of mouth client referrals, acknowledgement of advocacy work done in local communities, collaborations, and media recognition. Sharing what I can and teaching others, has also taught me much, allowing me to grow together with them.

How and why did you become interested in MSM?

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I believe in giving everyone the opportunity to be in safe spaces where they can connect with themselves, learn about their bodies, express one’s sensuality and sexuality, and to celebrate the pleasures to be discovered in one’s own body.

I’ve discovered that MSM is a holistic and healthy approach for promoting connection, self-discovery, and appreciation. It can also be emotional, therapeutic, an exploratory process, indulgent, and so much more. I believe that it’s beneficial for singles and couples alike and I do stay in touch with many of my clients, becoming friends and kindred souls as we embark on this wondrous journey together.

Over the last decade, I’ve been recognized and credited as a respectful, skilled, and bespoke masseur. Respecting the rapport and trust built with my clients, in order to provide a legitimate and holistic experience, I immersed myself in studying extensively on human anatomy, the diversity of erogenous zones, and the psychology of arousal and pleasure. I’ve traveled across Europe and Asia (North, South, and South East), teaching workshops, conducting skill exchanges, and learning from the best; by incorporating the best from each style and region, I’ve curated a unique style and approach which I believe will continue to evolve.

Although MSM is incredibly flexible and diverse, every individual is their own unique person. We differ in expectations, preferences, comforts, and boundaries. I respect each individual and want to share with you an experience that is personally tailored - it’s all about you and for you.

Session Lifecycle

We’ve recently authored a new article outlining the details of the session lifecycle. For more information, please head over here.

Experiences Available

I’m able to curate a wide variety of experiences using your inputs found in the consultation form. With your feedback, I’ll refine and develop an outline for your very own personalized experience. Here are some basic templates that you may find helpful to work with. I’ve streamlined my offerings to allow for easier reading. Further customization is always available through our discussions.

Standard MSM session - I’ve co-authored a description on the complete process flow, read about it here. I highly recommend it for first timers as it’s a great introduction to what sensual massage is all about.

Group & Couples - Choose from either having multiple masseurs tending to you or experience sensual massage as a couple.

Sensual Exploration - Through an exploratory approach that feels therapeutic, we address stress, issues related to achieving/enjoying orgasm, negative experiences, pain, and/or trauma in a collaborative, safe, and patient manner. The approach can be as clinical or as connective as you’d want it to be.

Sensual Kink session - Kink has a wide spectrum of intensity, choose from various elements of dominance, primal play, bondage, impact play, and aftercare.

1-to-1 Workshop - for individuals and couples who prefer a more private and personalized approach. The outline of each workshop will depend on the course syllabus. We’ll be pairing hands on- teaching via a demonstration with a personalized method suited to each giver and receiver. Adequate time is given for practice and guided correction. Finally, we end with a Q&A and individual session feedback to consolidate and integrate our learnings.

Reviews

Dates listed below are based on dates that reviews are received (which could sometimes be a few days to even a week after the session or workshop). It’s been nearly 6 years since I’ve started compiling feedback (thank you all who have been part of this amazing journey!), feedback listed here are from more recent times. Older ones can be found in the archive.

13 Oct 2024 - 8/10

This was my first time having a sensual and yoni massage and I was completely blown away by my experience with Pothos. Everything about the session, from the beginning to the end, was carefully curated and planned to how I wanted.

After filling up the google form, he took the time to carefully probe into my responses for better understanding of what my boundaries and turn-ons are. Although he was very knowledgeable, there was never a time where he seemed impatient or I felt as if he was talking down to me.

He was very kind, although it was at times hard for me to articulate my thoughts, purely because some feelings were indescribable. So during the session, every touch and action was deliberate, purposeful and mindful, all with the intention of hitting my pleasure spots.

I have indicated that I do not just derive pleasure from physical touch at certain erogenous zones, but from affirmative words and sounds coming for the giver. He was intentional about incorporating that in the right measure without going over the top. I also indicated that there were areas of my own sexuality that I was unsure of and would like to explore further with a trained professional like Pothos. While he respected the hard boundaries, he gently nudged me into dynamics that I was unfamiliar with.

All the while, I never once felt like I was being disrespected or taken advantage of. I felt extremely safe with Pothos and knew that I could completely trust him.

I also enjoyed the post-session debrief when he explained to me his observations of what seemed to stimulate me as well as my erogenous zones that was responsive to his touch so I can eventually tell my partners where to focus. I thoroughly enjoyed this session and will be looking forward to having more with him.

8 Oct 2024 - 10/10

Just the right pace to reach multiple orgasms.

18 Mar 2024 - 10/10

The session with Po was very exciting, eye opening and overall a really fun experience. The consultation & briefing were really smooth while also made me think in more detail about what I want to explore and what my motivations are for the session. Since I was curious about some kink/domination elements as well as toys, Po made sure to incorporate them into our plan as well.

I was a little nervous and tense at the start but Po masterfully creates an open and safe space to chat (he really is a great communicator) that lets you ease in into the experience. I also immensely enjoyed our cuddle sessions. The massage part was very relaxing, with good pressure (alternating depending on the body part massaged) and also a good amount of teasing that made me look forward to more.

Throughout the session I felt we are going with the natural flow and I was comfortable to express myself in whatever way I wanted or felt right for me at the moment. Po is great at reading body signals so even if I couldn’t form a coherent sentence at times he easily picked up on things that made me feel really good. There was no pressure or any particular expectations which let me fully immerse myself in the experience.

The post-session briefing was really interesting, it was easy to ask questions and I always got a detailed and clear explanation on anything I was curious about. I feel I learnt a lot about my body and myself.

To sum up, the session ended with me feeling a little sore (fully consensual and appreciated), extremely relaxed, happy and satisfied so definitely would recommend Po as the Therapist and I’m looking forward to more sessions in the future!

29 Feb 2024 - 10/10

A discussion about female orgasm led to the suggestion in engaging Pothos to experience it first hand. I was hesitant at first but decided that it wasn’t a shameful or embarrassing activity so I went with it.

It was a super enriching experience and I learnt so much from the session. I felt comfortable and safe throughout the session. Pothos destroyed all the knots in my back with his amazing massage skills and eased into the sensual massage naturally.

He was encouraging, but also firm, which allowed me to experience orgasms from different stimulation points. I was intrigued by the session and had so many questions. Pothos patiently discussed these different topics, as well as my anatomy and how my body respond to stimuli.

I enjoyed the session tremendously, it was a really interesting and enriching experience.

14 Feb 2024 - 9/10 2 Guys, 4 Hands, Mike & Pothos

I always love a good massage and having a male masseur always makes it exceptionally satisfying for me both mentally and physically. I've had one to one session with Po previously and it was great. This time round, I wanted to try something more.

The 2 guys 4 hands massage caught my eye. Have always been intrigued by the thought of having two guys caressing me all over but really hesitant to try it. Mike was really nice and we had a nice chat on it. Eventually decided to go ahead. Got really excited and nervous days before the appointment and both Mike and Po chatted with me along the way. It made the whole experience more comfortable and chill.

Arrived at Mike and Po's place, was welcomed warmly by Mike. We chatted and quickly warmed up to each other. Po joined shortly after and we started chatting like friends. Then we started the session.

I was so freaking satisfied. I lost count of the no. of times I came but I was constantly wet. Mike and Po have very different characters and it reflected on their massage as well. One was gentle and slow, one was rough and fast. While I was enjoying the slow caressing of two hands, another two hands targeted elsewhere and surprised me. While I enjoyed the strong kneading of one, the another person was gently kissing and blowing on my ears.

The dual sensation was amazing. Being thoroughly played with by them. It opened up a whole new experience for me. And I really look forward to more sensual explorations.

2 Dec 2023 - 10/10

This was my 2nd session with Pothos and prior to the session, we chatted and agreed on the objectives which was to explore my limits and to try light elements of BDSM. I appreciate that he continued to spend time before the session to chat and build rapport with me. He also reminded me on my ability to withdraw consent at any point and the safe words to use.

This session was very different from the previous – apart from a sensual body and yoni massage, it also included exploration with sex toys. I really enjoyed the sensual body massage, particularly the butt massage (better than sports massage!) where I felt instant, effective relief from the gym work I had been doing. There was also a segment to explore sensations and limits using sex toys that I have not tried before. Leaving the control of the toys to a trusted partner (in this case Pothos) was a new and exhilarating experience for me.

Pothos did a fantastic job in pacing the experience and reading my body language, often reminding me to breathe deeply and slowly to enhance receiving the pleasure, enabling me to push my limits and experience new highs. There were times where I felt faint and/or my limbs felt tingling and used the safe words, which Pothos reacted promptly.

After the intense pleasurable segment, a cuddling session ensued and he encouraged me to use this break for myself to touch myself and/or give appreciation to my body. The sensual yoni massage segments no doubt were blissful, incredible and mindblowing – the kissing, the touches, the orgasms, the dirty (yet reassuring/positive) talking. To call Pothos an expert is an understatement.

During the debrief session, Pothos shared with me observations and compliments about myself/my body, some of which surprised me. I am really glad I continued my sessions with him. I continue to learn more about myself and gain more confidence sexually.

29 Nov 2023 - 10/10

Pothos was very clear in communicating during the pre-session consultation, and he created a comfortable space where we were able to flesh out my desires, and the sort of experience I wanted. He was also incredibly attuned to me during the session, and our time together flowed so seamlessly I was able to focus fully on how the sensations felt, and my inner experiences, rather than the mechanics of what was going on.

I deeply appreciated his attention to detail, and awareness of the body, such that even something as small as flipping me over or getting me to shift into a different position was done sensitively and smoothly, without any break in the energy flow or presence.

He was also very responsive when I shared that I didn’t like a certain gesture, and did so in a way that brought me deeper into the experience rather than out of it, which is really skilful! The pacing of the entire session was also sufficiently intense, and his reminder for me to breathe was very much appreciated.

I learnt so much about my own body, not just anatomically, but also sensually. I felt deeply listened to and held throughout the entire time I shared with Pothos.

5 Nov 2023 - 10/10

I had an incredibly mindblowing and educational experience with a very skilled Pothos in a safe, open and empowering environment.

Apart from receiving, I also achieved my objective of understanding more about my body and preferences and had the opportunity to have my questions answered. The entire experience started from the consultation, to the pre-session briefing/conversation, followed by the actual session and the post-sharing session. A detailed consultation was professionally done to understand my experiences, motivations and preferences. There was a strong emphasis on seeking consent and the ability to withdraw it throughout my experience whenever I wanted to.

Pothos has such a friendly and warm-hearted personality that helped put me at ease. He also spent some time chatting during the pre-session that helped the session flowed comfortably.

The actual sensual meditative massage was absolutely amazing. I really liked how we spent some time focusing on relaxing and breathing that helped bring me into the right mind space. I was able to fully immerse in the experience and eventually came multiple times, including a huge squirt.

I also appreciated that Pothos also incorporated my preferences (kink/dom-sub) into the session, constantly monitored my reactions and gave me verbal affirmation and paced the session accordingly. He also was very generous in affection (hugs, kisses, etc) in a very natural manner.

Post-session, there was a briefing where Pothos shared with me his observations about my body and its reactions, taught me about the various spots (some I didn’t know about!) and gave advice/recommendations on my toys. I also appreciated him answering some questions that I always had (but don’t know who to ask!).

At the end of the entire session, I just laid in bed with a huge wide smile. It was such a fun, liberating and empowering session that I am grateful to Pothos for.

2 Sep 2023 - 8/10

Pothos made me feel comfortable and the session was really good. It felt natural and he instinctively knew my limits. He was also very respectful, with a warm personality.

He was very friendly and easygoing too, taking the time to know me after the session.

2 Jul 2023 - 10/10

I learnt new things about my body that I didn't know was possible. Pothos is great, super affirming, and made me feel comfortable, respected, pampered throughout.

He took time to chat, hear more about me and why I wanted to do the session and understand me, and then incorporated some of it into the session. For example I said that sometimes during sensual activities with a partner I worry about what they're thinking, if they're bored, comfortable, etc. So he gave me a lot of verbal affirmation to calm that part of me during the session.

I was very happy about how open the communication was on feedback, boundaries and consent, I felt comfortable voicing how I was feeling. I also appreciated that I could ask questions about many topics like stimulation, different techniques, and he is informed and eager to share knowledge.

Pothos has amazing skills, and gave me a mind blowing, yet meditative experience that I won't forget.

28 Jun 2023 - 10/10 Workshop (Level 2) Mike & Pothos

Several months after our level 1 graduation and ample practice, we attended the level 2 course, with the same familiar instructors, Mike and Pothos.

They are both great and we have to again highlight their professionalism and competency!

The workshop was a perfect continuation of level 1 with additional sensory elements, new techniques and applications. My wife and I enjoyed it greatly and we learned a lot!

Using what we have acquired is not only great for our own sensual experiences, but is also highly appreciated by our other friends and partners.

Thank you so much Mike and Pothos for sharing your experiences and knowledge!

5 Mar 2023 - 10/10

The experience super good. The masseuse very polite and explained everything and keep asking if ok or not. Really enjoyed the whole experience.

5 Mar 2023 - 10/10 Couples Session

Really amazing experience, she was surprised that she was able to do things that she thought was impossible.

4 Mar 2023 - 10/10

This is my second sensual massage from a different therapist that is Po whom was highly recommended by my first therapist, Mike. Thank you Mike for the recommendation! Like before, I always like to come prepared, so what I do is I read his profile and reviews and I know what to expect. I was excited and looking forward to it. It was a kinda last minute arrangement but I'm glad he was able to accept it. Thanks to Mike.

While waiting for him to get ready, with the background soothing music, I lay down facing down, relaxing and getting into the mood. It started with the back massage up to the neck.. it was like ohhh it feels so good especially when it belongs to a pair of man hands.. superb! The massage pressure was fantastic. I love the feels of skin to skin, the breathing, the kisses on the neck, the ear/earlobes.. its like floating in the air.. so arousing! I always love and enjoy playing with toys.

Po used the wand massager! The moment it touched the clit, it triggers the sensitivity throughout the whole body and I had an orgasm after orgasm on and on and the feeling is beyond description! At one point of time it felt like I was in a trance.. trance orgasm hahaha

Po included some light bdsm play.. loving it! I felt good and well connected with my mind-body-soul, safe, well taken care of from the beginning till the end. Po is defintely a professional! This definitely won't end here.. This is the best me time and the great way of pampering myself!

Thank you Po and I'll see you soon!

29 Jan 2023 - 10/10 Couples Session

Po was very reassuring and professional and explained everything step by step and he made the session really amazing!

It was really a great couple's session and allowed us to explore all the ideas we had and he was very open to share about the options and shared with me each part and what he was doing and what was the desired end result.

20 Jan 2023 - 10/10 2 Guys, 4 Hands, Mike & Pothos

As a patronizer, I did a number of 2 hands. Today was my first 4 hands. Po and Mike are still professional and respectful. Open to ideas and everything.

You can see their chemistry with each other. You can't even tell when they constantly switc places because their touch were in sync. Their touch, ever so calming, loving, gentle, hard when required, bringing you that erotic fantasy more than you could ever wished. I could feel our breaths slowly syncing.

Slowly from the pain when untying my knots, they stopped when I was in pain, then slowly adjusted to my feel, and soon my body transcended into ethereal panes.

You will feel loved, sensual and respected. Making you want more sessions.

9 Jan 2022 - 10/10

The massage was a very enlightening experience. Starting from the beginning, Pothos had taken the time to carefully read through everything I had sent in on the pre-consult form. He asked questions to clarify certain points in order to make sure that he could provide what I was seeking in the massage.

On the actual day itself, Pothos had created a friendly and safe environment through chit chat and he also re-stated some of the things on the form so that both sides were clear on what is to happen.

During the session, I felt like I was in good hands and was able to relax and simply take in the sensual massage. By the end of the massage, the objectives I had set out were accomplished and I was able to learn a lot about my own body.

The pace of the massage was just right, gradually building up to a high point and then slowing down to a low point. Any remaining questions I had were answered and there was never any rush during the session.

24 Oct 2022 - 8/10

It was honestly really comforting. I came in with no expectations, and I felt I have came out from the experience learning more about myself.

Pothos was observant with my feelings and body and I appreciate him for listening and adjusting to my needs. I really would like to emphasise that space he created was safe and I do feel free and relaxed in the space as well.

I am really thankful for it and the effort he has gone through to ensure my comfort was consistently there during the experience.

24 Oct 2022 - 8/10 Workshop (Level 1) Mike & Pothos

Sensual Massage part 1 starts with the basics of massage techniques and forwards to more sensual topics like massaging inner things and body to body massage.

You'll understand how to please women at the same time you'll also be aroused multiple times during the session.

17 Oct 2022 - 10/10

I had reached out to Po for a session that incorporates kink elements of dominance and primal play. In order for such a session to go smoothly we needed to build a baseline understanding and trust with each other. Even though it was my first session with him, he was very easy to talk to and we very quickly established our own pace to things.

Po was definitely a po-fessional at giving massages, soothing and working out the knots in my shoulders. I won't delve too much on things but instead I'll give a better insight on the kink elements for those interested.

It was very enlightening to discuss with Po on what I wanted to explore, helping me to fine-tune and verbalize my outlook and expectations for the session. I was always at ease as the session transitioned to more and more elements of primal play and dominance, and Po was always attuned to my moods and needs.

I am delighted to have my limits pushed reasonably, straddling that fine line of biting more than you can chew!

I definitely had great fun and Po won't disappoint if you're interested in such sessions.

1 Jul 2022 - 9/10

It was an amazing session with Pothos. He was professional and gave a brief intro about himself and how he got into sensual message before the session which made me feel comfortable.

The transition from the massage to sensual component was good. I was able to squirt twice during the yoni massage which was surprising, as I usually have trouble achieving orgasm.

During the cool-off period he took time to teach me about G and A spot which I never knew it existed.

I would recommend this to any women who would like to explore sensual massage in a safe setting.

8 Jun 2022 - 10/10 Workshop (Level 1) Mike & Pothos

I have always linked sensuality with sexuality. Never have I realised that sensuality does trigger all the 5 senses of the human mind and it feels much deeper than that. The idea of being a giver or receiver being opened to one another allows me to take a closer look at the relationship of 2 persons and both Mike and Pothos really brought that to the fore during the workshop.

The workshop allowed me to let go of myself and not being afraid of being me while consciously being aware of my partner's feelings. The mindfulness state that Pothos brought us through in the beginning of the workshop sets the tone of how sensual massage is supposed to be; a connection of body, mind and soul between 2 kindred spirits.

The demonstration by Mike and Pothos were simple and easy to understand. It allowed a noob like me to be able to grab the concepts easily, with body aches the day after (hahahah).

My bunny was also exceptionally helpful and thoughtful by constantly giving me feedback and sharing different techniques to complement the sharing by Mike and Pothos. She really put me at ease as it has been a while since I have touched another person in such a setting.

Overall the workshop was fantastic. It brought me new knowledge and skills on how to be a giver in a sensual (not sexual) setting. It also opened my eyes to a different perspective of mindfulness. And I will want to go to the next level once I feel that I am ready.

20 May 2022 - 10/10

Pothosd was great! He made sure that I was relaxed and comfortable whenever he proceeds to something new. He checks on me and gave me time to recover and cuddled me so sweetly.

The mood was so good that I did more than I had expected. Really enjoyed myself tremendously!

2 May 2022 - 9/10 Workshop (Level 1) Mike & Pothos

I found the Sensual Massage Level 1 workshop workshop very well-paced and easy to follow. It was held in a safe and comfortable environment where people felt comfortable to learn, and be as undressed as they wanted.

The instructors, Mike and Po, broke down the mechanics of each movement very well, and provided practical massage tips around touch, body awareness and the exchange of energy.

Particularly, I appreciated how dedicated they were with providing individual corrections to each couple attending, tailoring the moves to different body types and strength levels. Learned a lot!

26 Apr 2022 - 9/10 Workshop (Level 1) Mike & Pothos

Really amazing session. Lots of excellent tips were shared on how to give a great sensual massage. Quite an eye opening experience too, because of the unconventional aspects like butt area, and gentle touching and scratching.

3 Apr 2022 - 10/10

Pothos is very patient and the conversations and session is a very great experience. He gives me the secure and comfortable feeling throughout the session. That gives me the courage to be myself, which I appreciate it very much. Thank you Pothos

29 Mar 2022 - 8/10

I have been considering about having sensual massage for the longest time and only now, I gathered up enough courage to give it a try. It’s not because it scary, I personally feel it’s not something that’s common especially for ladies to be doing. So moving forward in breaking the stigma, I sent in my queries and shortly after, Pothos texted me. He was really clear with his explanation via text. Me still being clueless did not have much question to ask.

We booked an appointment at our earliest convenience. The only downside to this session was Pothos misread the appointment time so I had to wait downstairs. It didn’t start with a good note but trust me, I came out very pleased after the session. He fetched me from the lobby and he led me to his apartment (studio). It was nice of him to explain to me the work and the projects that are done there, with really nice pictures too!

Prior to session, we discussed further on what I would want to achieve and the boundaries that could make the session a more enjoyable one. The room was clean and nice, really relaxing. There’s an attached bathroom too in case you need to shower before or after. The flow of the session was really nice too! It made me very relaxed and his massage was really good. He took into account that my back is hurting so he focused more on my back which is really helpful!

When it comes to the sensual part of the massage, it didn’t feel awkward at all. It flows nicely and I enjoyed it thoroughly. I squirted so much! And the sensation Pothos made me feel, I’ve never felt it before. Throughout the session, he would tell me that I look beautiful and just assured me that I’m perfect the way I was. After a couple of intense orgasm, he would give me some time to breath and absorb the whole experience, before continuing with the next.

After the massage has ended, he gave me ample time to get ready. The debrief session was good too as he shared more about my body through his observation. It was rather pricey but for the kind of service I received, it was 100% worth it!

Thanks Pothos for making me one really happy lady!

24 Mar 2022 - 10/10

Had my first session with Pothos and the experience was above my expectation. The way he showed the place to me, and explained the process stressing the boundaries, made me feel safe and comfortable. I think the trust was built during the standard massage part as that was very good on its own.

Progressing to the sensual part, he asked for consent before moving to the next step even if, I believe, he already known my answer.

After the incredible session, we had a great conversation too and I really appreciate his patience in sharing his experience and advice on life and career.

18 Mar 2022 - 10/10

During our initial discussions, I left the boundaries part open with Pothos as I wasn’t quite sure about it. Midway through the session, it so happened that there was something that I was not comfortable with and it feels really great to be listened to.

It was a safe space where I could just let go and allow my mind and body to properly feel, knowing that my boundaries will be respected, knowing that Pothos would gently check in with me.

24 Feb 2022 - 8/10

Pothos was really professional and respects boundaries. He’s awesome in creating a safe environment where I felt respected, comfortable and in control - it truly was MY experience. I was able to understand his approach and trust in the process because Pothos shared deeply about many of his deep learnings about sensual massage.

Truly, Pothos puts the client first and ensures your sense of safety is respected. I also learnt new things about my body and didn’t realize I could squirt, much less multiple times in a session!!

Pothos was also able to shed light on why I felt pain in some areas - some of that was more psychological. That was eye opening for me. Overall a wonderful self discovery process :) highly recommended

24 Jan 2022 - 9/10

It was a really enriching experience as I've managed to graduate with the guidance of Pothos, who is very experienced. This is my first time having a sensual massage so I don't have any past experiences to benchmark but it really felt great!

It was my first time experiencing sensations like this as I don't have much relationship experience so I was nervous, but he guided me along the way while respecting my boundaries and making it feel good for me. Various types of toys were available to try as well, and it definitely helped me decide what to get for myself.

To conclude, it was a good experience that I would recommend those who would like to take their virginity in their own hands (to control when to lose it) and have an experience as painless as possible with a professional!

13 Jan 2022 - 9/10

Hmm so yes this was my first session of sensual massage art and what a session man... I truly loved it!!! Better than I expected. I have to be very honest here, I was very nervous to do something like this which I haven't done ever. But my therapist Pothos was very patient, calm n relaxing. He never rushed for anything, heard me completely and shared his views as well as the scientific aspects beautifully.

I was not at all nervous by the time we finished our pre session discussion and was waiting for the massage to begin. I loved how he respected my views and followed thru the session. Oh man this guy can kiss.... his lips r so soft, I loved kissing him. He knows how to touch and handle all the areas of my body...never felt like that ever.

On top of that I had 4 orgasms thru out the session whereas I never had one in my whole life. My whole body was vibrating with intensity n pleasure. U can stop whenever u want. Its all flexibility and your will. I’m gonna do this again in coming months...

4 Jan 2022 - 10/10

Pothos went above and beyond to assure me and making sure that all was good before starting the session. The session was not rushed and the massage was really good. This comes from someone who doesn't like massages.

During the session, there was spontaneous flow and at that moment, I felt connected to Pothos. Very sweet words were used too and I felt very pampered and satisfied. It has left me wanting for more.

31 Dec 2021 - 9/10

It's an experience that's specially designed for you which is what makes it great! I felt comfortable throughout the entire session and it was overall a fantastic experience to try :)

29 Nov 2021 - 8/10

It's an experience that's specially curated for you, there isn't a must-do list or a specific structure, which is what makes it great! I felt unjudged, respected and reassured throughout the entire session and it was overall a fantastic experience to try :)

11 Nov 2021 - 10/10

I lost count how many orgasms I had. Po was attentive and great at knowing where and how to massage a female body. I appreciated the hugs and cuddles when coming down from a blissful high.

3 Nov 2021 - 8/10

Pothos is very instinctive and passionate. He shared his body and passion with me in an open and giving manner.

The session gave me fresh perspectives about my eroticism and desires :)

6 Oct 2021 - 10/10

Took me a long while to finally step out of my comfort zone and enquired about the massage. No regrets. Pre-meetup consultation was comfortable and I felt that my needs were understood despite me expressing bare minimum. Throughout the session, everything was explained clearly and I was ensured the best comfort.

The session really opened up a new sense of healing for me. Helped me to find out what exactly I was looking for! It was definitely a great rollercoaster ride physically, mentally and emotionally.

Overall, it went above what I imagined it would be.

3 Oct 2021 - 9.5/10 Couples Session

First time squirting! Po made us feel very comfortable from the start and was clear about what we could expect. Whilst there was no pressure to see if I could squirt I'm still delighted by the result!

30 Sep 2021 - 9/10

The massage component was really on point, as I was struggling with aching back and neck. Po worked on the tense back muscles and realignment, I felt much better afterwards.

The sensual exploration and yoni massage really exploded my mind, can't describe :')

13 Sep 2021 - 5/10

It was an intense session that left me breathless. However I felt that there were not enough arousal opportunities. The cuddling session could have been better. It was as if therapist was not too keen to cuddle with me. I had requested for the use of toys/vibrator in this session but it was not used. Apparently afraid I might dirty it??

Therapist lists Nuru massage as 1 option but refuses to give it for whatever reason. Not enough attention given to my breasts and clit as well. Seemed like a rushed session to me.

It did however satisfy my hedonistic pleasures. The normal massage was very good. Good pressure applied to ease some of the stiff muscles.

Mike: We have counter-checked with both the client and therapist involved. While we cannot comment on personal perceptions, a full session exceeding the allocated time expectations was carried out. We’ve advised the client in this instance that additional sessions may be booked to cover the whole range of sensual massage experiences.

12 Sep 2021 - 10/10

This was my first session and I was initially very wary. I felt assured by how Pothos was so professional from the start. I liked how he asked a lot of follow-up questions based on my consultation form - from previous injuries, to clarifying boundaries. He also was very patient in answering my questions - from how boundaries are maintained, to how toys are being cleaned. And his responses were very well thought through - showing that he obviously knew his craft. I was quite assured and impressed at the professionalism, practices and procedures in place. I honestly might not have continued onto the session if I did not feel safe enough before it.

As for the session itself? It was sex therapy. And this extended even before the session. It started from the reflection questions during the pre-consultation period, where I was asked to reflect on kinks, and in doing so realised their underlying past hurts or false narratives. During the session, the intent was to allow my body to feel safe, and for healing of past trauma. Pothos did a good job in balancing making space for past pain to surface, and being soothing and skilful in knowing what my body needed to feel safe. I’ve been to coaches and therapists to heal from the past sexual trauma before. But what Pothos is able to do - soothing the body and emotion so skilfully and in just the first session - that’s a whole other level. He was even able to sort out the mixed messages my body vs heart vs head was saying, to help me in where I actually needed to heal, even when I wasn’t fully aware of it.

I’d highly recommend him as a sex therapist, over traditional talk therapy or coaching. Of course, the pleasure during the session was phenomenal too. My body responded in ways I honestly didn't think was possible. I came and squirted more than I ever had. Then I rested. Then came and squirted some more! I really didn’t think my body had that much in me! It was a delightful surprise.

And it was also my first time experiencing so many different ‘styles’ of inducing pleasure - from different fingering methods to different toys. It did make me more open to learning how to better pleasure myself. Now that I know my body is capable of so much, I realise it's my own lack of skills that has me missing out!

I also liked the bit on sex education - showing me where the different erogenous zones are (G, A, P, U spots?). And in the process, finding out which my body responded well to. I had no idea that we had so many spots. And I wished this was more common knowledge for more people! I expected to come out of the session feeling relief. But overall I feel more confident of my body and my sensuality too. Which is a huge bonus.

Overall, the setting and pace was very comfortable. And this set up is far more professional, skilled and safe than I thought such a ‘sensual massage’ place might be.

Would rate this 11/10, and would highly recommend Pothos & Sensual Massage Arts for the following angles * Professional & safe set up * Holding space and healing from sexual trauma * Learning about my body's zones and what it likes * Ability to explore sensuality, sexuality and kinks in a safe way * Having the most orgasms and squirting I ever had

7 Sep 2021 - 10/10

So I arrived at his place today and he walked me up and took me for a tour at his workshop and shows me the stuffs he have, nicely display in the cupboard. Before the session started, he brief me through all the expectation and boundaries, to let me know that i can say no if I’m uncomfortable or etc.

So then we started off with breathing exercises, meditation, good body massage and he gave me a good neck and shoulder massage. Then it slowly moves on to the sensual massage. The sensual massage was very good. I had multiple orgasms and he made me try my first squirting and etc. He also explained to me what are those g/a/o spots and how do I feel. He constantly check in to ensure that I am comfortable.

The rest of the session was amazing, he made me feel very very good . You have to try it yourself!

The session was great (10/10) and he did spent time to bring me back to the reality after all the good times and to talk to me on what he observed from the body and the feedbacks for the session. Thank you!!

21 Aug 2021 - 9/10

Was nervous and anxious when I first booked my session with Pothos, he truly show me what my body is capable of and how high my threshold can reach.

His massage was one of the best that I've encountered. My shoulder was aching constantly and he managed to ease my shoulder and tease me at the same time which makes me go wild and feeling relaxed at the same time.

Will definitely approach him for my subsequent session!

13 Jul 2021 - 9/10

Gabe took his time to show me around, talk to me and take me through the process. He took time to chat with me , to allow me to know him better. I think that was useful for trust building and connection.

The session itself was also very professional. He checks in with how I feel at various points and never does anything I’m not comfortable with. I felt genuinely cared for.

4 Jul 2021 - 10/10

I LOVED EVERY BIT OF THE SESSION. Words alone can’t truly portray how I felt. I would like to thank Po for opportunity to explore and learn more about myself under his unique curations. The second sensual massage session with Po has left me rather excited compared to previous sessions where I would remunerate and critique my performance.

The pledge of 2021 to be the year for active self-development is a constant work in progress where some days are harder than others, but I’m honoured to have met wonderful people whom have been part of the journey so far. My sensual sessions whether massage or dominance, are all-encompassing on building self-awareness, self-love and learning to say “no”. Proud to say I managed to act on all 3 of the above in the recent session. I also allowed myself to bask more deeply in different sensations rather than just allow them to run through me.

Entering the session room, I realised the usual expectations of a session were missing at the back of my mind. I was instead coming to a session in a blank slate, welcoming Po’s curation with open arms. Po's curation included a surprise for my ass, in return I surprised him with a proactive action that has not been seen before in previous sessions. To add to the mix of sensations across my body, Po's new clit rubbing manouvre which I call "The Joystick" was so out of this world that is pushed me into subspace. Thanks to his rubbing, i could no longer take anymore stimulation for the rest of the session.

Instead I asked for a foot massage that was initially not in the programme list. Po's foot massage was the kind that normally I would tell the masseuse to reduce the pressure on my foot. Not surprising, Po rolled his eyes and told me that my version is a foot rub. My foot massage was even better than I had imagined. Po found my left food is more sensitive than my right in certain areas. My left foot had a ticklish spot whilst the right didn’t, and I think this brought out the sadistic side of Po. Oh my, you learn something everyday.

Knowing my clit was sore, bless Po for cooling my clit with the njoy. Seeing my body relax he inserted the njoy into my vagina to find the g-spot and a-spots. The idea of squirting is fun, but it’s not the goal for me. I find the journey throughout the session much more enriching and fulfilling than squirting. Squirting is the icing on the cake.

Our cool down pow wow segment was us hugging and going through each other’s perspective of the session. I liked that I could throw some curve balls in the session ie. Lymph nodes rubbing and foot massage. It helps keep things interesting. I’m also happy to see a new and improved side of myself in action, especially proud of the level I saw yesterday.

Thank you once again Po for your time, support and personal curation. I look forward to learning more “twitches” in future sessions.

29 Jun 2021 - 9/10

I loved that all boundaries were clearly stated and adhered to. I really enjoyed kissing Pothos. He has nice soft lips and is a great kisser. Explained to me what squirting is (so far I had no clue on that). Able to talk dirty and yet make me feel sexy and loved at the same time.

Loved those spankings from him and his dominance in bed. He stimulated my breasts an clitoris really well! Very satisfied.

Able to connect with him beyond the bedroom on other topics. I think that is important too.

20 Jun 2021 - 9/10

9/10 – Only because I always believe that reviews with 8/9 out of 10 are more authentic, and also in that there is always something to look forward to, leaving us something to work on next time, even as there may never be such thing as true perfection. Rambly thoughts aside, I thought this was an amazing first session that respected my boundaries, but pushed my limits and expanded horizons, opening my eyes (or rather, body) to new sensations and new areas of sensuality that I never previously found enjoyable or knew I was turned on by.

In the prior communication over text chat, Pothos was thorough and covered all the necessary areas to discuss and establish the expectations and what I was looking for in the session. He also quelled my random doubts without making me overthink or worry about them. On session day, he brought me up to the space and gave a mini introduction tour, in which you could tell was set up with many different objectives and activities in mind. After that, we moved on to the actual pre-session discussion where we talked about boundaries, consent and more about which areas I wanted to focus on. I liked that Pothos was easy to talk to, but not overly chatty or overbearing in personality; more of a secure and nurturing vibe that assured me he was professional but would bring me as far as I’d like to explore. He also made it clear that the session would be focused on me and where I wanted to take it to.

On to the session, we started with a traditional massage and he definitely rubbed out the kinks (lol) in my sore neck and shoulders, back and sit spots. From there, he moved on to try more sensual aspects such as finding my erogenous zones on the body and I could feel the energy level spike. As it progressed, it reassured me that he was constantly checking in but introducing something new (within the boundaries we had discussed) to see how I respond, and adapting based on that. I’ll spare the details but basically, for literally the first time ever I managed to come from stimulation to the G-spot and even nipples/chest. Like, ok, as someone who’s ever had to tahan painful sex or fake an orgasm – I think I learned something about my body today. And that, I think, was what made the session so amazing. I learnt how to recognize new sensations in my body, and (perhaps start to) recalibrate my brain to perceive pleasure in different ways.

The after-session debrief was also a good way to come back and talk through how we felt, go through both mine and his feedback, and also the areas that we had delved into and I could continue to explore – either in a next session with Pothos or in my personal life/with my partner. Well, thank you Pothos! :)

17 May 2021 - 10/10

I was a bit apprehensive and shy about going for the experience at first but Pothos walked me through the process and helped me set up some boundaries, which was greatly appreciated and helped put me at ease. Once the session started, it was very easy for me to get in the mood and it was just smooth sailing from there.

I felt well listened to and cared for during the whole session.

28 Apr 2021 - 10/10 Workshop (Level 1) Mike & Pothos

A great introduction to sensual massage, with a comfortable and open avenue for a learning giver to practice as well as ask queries without fear or judgment.

27 Apr 2021 - 10/10 Workshop (Level 1) Mike & Pothos

I found the event pretty amazing. Especially, the coaches and bunnies were super friendly and supportive.

The setting for the massage with the lighting and music was pretty unique and I really liked it. I can definitely see how the massage would be super helpful to the receiver and this is something that I would like to give to my partners, so I’m glad I learned it.

I didn’t expect how tiring the whole session can get.

Overall I loved the event!

15 Apr 2021 - 9/10

Was a little nervous yet excited before the session, but managed to relax after meeting Pothos. He was very nice and sat down with me to talk me through the process first which calmed my nervousness.

The whole process was very enjoyable and Pothos made sure that my feelings and experience was of the priority. I thought it was hard for me to orgasm but I actually had more orgasms than I thought I would and it was incredible.

5 Apr 2021 - 10/10

It was a physically intense session, pleasure almost felt like torture at some points, but definitely all that I wanted to experience and perhaps a bit more.

Appreciated the dominance element, those teasing bites, mind games, oh and asking for my age so randomly in between and then making me cum that number of times - well played and very evil!

Thank you for a very pleasurable and insightful experience - definitely came away discovering more about myself, and aside from the physical pleasure, that growth element is important as well. Absolutely valued the safe space throughout. :)

22 Mar 2021 - 10/10

It was a wowwww.. I think its magical.. its my first time and I love it.. really had a great experience..

Pothos is very professional. All boundaries was discussed before the session and all my boundaries were respected at all the time. I like it when he cares and keep ask am I ok or how I feel throughout the session. All my stress are gone..I love it when I felt his breath on my ear with a little smooch... I was really turn on with it..

I like it when he called me bitch.. I really couldn't count how many orgasms I had.. that was mind blowing.. come to last part squirting.. something that I wanted my entire life but didn't get chance before.. he made me squirt.. I ended up with tears and hugging him at the end.. I can't belive I squirted... thank you po..

looking forward for my next session with him.. I come home and slept like a baby.. I would give 12/10 if I can. Looking forward for my 2nd session!

14 Mar 2021 - 10/10 Workshop (Level 2) Mike & Pothos

Discover sensuality, mindfulness and meditative exploration of the soul thru love, feel and touch for the giver and receiver.

14 Mar 2021 - 10/10

It was beyond awesome. If I could choose 11/10 I would. I felt like the entire session left me a little light headed and giddy with pleasure and made me look forward for more. All my stress melted away. It’s so good.

Love your magical hands and your body. I liked our chemistry. Love it when you call me names. You make trying new things easy and made me feel safe, perhaps because you know your stuff. I like that I am so comfortable and I can trust my body with you.

The whole session opens up my senses... tastes, scents, touching in varying levels of intensity, loving everything you said throughout the session and being in a state of mental and emotional awareness.

9 Mar 2021 - 10/10 Workshop (Level 1) Mike & Pothos

I am not new to massage but this workshop showed us valuable and interesting ideas.

This is more sensual than actual deep massage but very enjoyable.

Some core strength is required by the giver. The 1-1 practical guidance really help you nail the correct technique.

9 Mar 2021 - 9/10 Couples Session

A wow experience,… first time for me and a definitely “do again” Pothos started slow with a traditional massage and build up the sensation as the session went on.

This was completely new for me and having my boyfriend with me watching the whole thing made me extremely horny. Pothos was very professional and did an excellent job. I don’t orgasm easy but had 2 big orgasms and squirted 3 times.

Squirting was also a new experience for me. I left the place a very happy, relaxed person, stress all gone. I can’t wait for my next session.

5 Mar 2021 - 10/10 Workshop (Level 1) Mike & Pothos

Very intimate and relaxing experience for couple. The setting is positive and professional - everyone was naked but there was nothing awkward or sketchy about it. A lot of learning lessons on slow and mindful sex practice!

3 Mar 2021 - 10/10 Workshop (Level 1) Mike & Pothos

Love Mike and Po passion in teaching the newcomers about sensual massage art, they keep the class size small, to spend more quality time on each couple to improve the technique. Their attentiveness is superb and ensure you have learned valuable tips to be take home.

26 Feb 2021 - 9/10

A very good eye-opening experience that took intimacy to a deeper level. Not regretting my experience on this unusual chance.

13 Feb 2021 - 10/10

I was taken from ground zero to the moon and back, multiple times. Learned a lot from my experience. Po is skilled and knows his art. He made my first sensual massage experience my best one yet.

I would rate 11 out of 10 if I could. Left me relaxed, refreshed and energised. Love it and will come back for more.

26 Jan 2021 - 10/10 Workshop (Level 1) Mike & Pothos

Awesome coaches who made everyone feel very comfortable throughout the session. Definitely learnt a lot from these guys!

24 Jan 2021 - 8/10

I was in search of a masseuse that had the firm consistent hands that could make me putty in the session. Pothos strummed my body instrumentally. A cacophony of steady sensual rhythm leading to a diaphragm climax.

In this magical experience. Po brought out the inner sensual dancer and submissive side of me. The session consisted of 80% sensual massage and 20% kink. With his personal curation, I had actualized more vulnerability than ever before and was one with myself.

The entire session has provided a new sense of empowerment. Through holding my orgasm for 1 min with a hitachi on my clit even after cumming for 10 mins. Or reminding myself to stay in the moment and not overthink every reaction. Try i must.

If you are thinking of doing a yoni massage, please do. My fear of having my clit rubbed raw has been diminished thanks to the TLC provided. Til then, Thank you Po for the beautifully curated session!

29 Dec 2020 - 8/10

I recently tried a sensual massage session with Pothos. I felt that I would like to leave a review to encourage the work he is doing in expanding the horizons of people such as myself who have never experienced sensual massage. I considered myself fairly open-minded and experimental, but the actual experience of sensual massage was unexpectedly intimidating to me.

Pothos began with what I considered (past tense) a rather redundant conversation about boundaries. ("Boundaries...? Oh, I don't mind anything, I'm here to learn," said I nonchalantly.) However, for people who have never experienced being stimulated by a complete stranger, this may prove to be more challenging than you would expect and I found myself relying on Pothos' sensitivity and judgment to steer me away from panic. Understanding what one is and is not comfortable with and feeling confident to set boundaries, is in fact extremely vital to the success of the session.

First, we began with a traditional neck, shoulder and back massage that had me relaxed, then some stimulation around the clitorial and vaginal areas. He was very attentive. With the sexual component, I began to feel awkward, as some newcomers do, but he was quick to pick this up and switch to a more clinical approach. He helped me to identify the g, p and a spots, as well as induce squirting.

Technically and professionally, I could not cite any problems. However, my enjoyment was hampered due to my sense of reticence, which I felt that he respected and treated kindly. I would have like to be a better receiver, but truth be told, it took me a lot to get used to being with a complete stranger. We had a chance to discuss the psychology of this a little, which was reassuring.

As a session for gathering information about myself, I found this very fruitful. We tried out different vibrators as well as positions of stimulation that I think might be helpful in other contexts. He even treated me to some relaxing strangling to reset my mood at the end.

At no point did I feel under pressure to be anyone other than myself. He was equally adept at switching between a more clinical approach and one that was more friendly and tender. I left the session with mixed feelings. On one hand, I respected the work he was doing and felt seen as well as understood. On the other hand, I realise that my mind is a complex thing, and the biggest barrier to letting go, sexually speaking.

So as a first session, I learnt that there was still a long way to go. Thanks for a non-judgemental learning environment. I can see this session being quite useful for couples.

14 Dec 2020 - 10/10

My first experienced with sensual massage and I know I have come to the right place and right hands. Not only the whole session is mind blowing, bring me to another level of experiencing multiple orgasms and squirting. Most important Pothos professionalism and attentive toward his customer is what I would like to praise.

I came to Sensual Massage site to understand my sexual frustration and body exploration, during my 1st session I completely get to know what & where holding me back and learning to let go.

In current stressful society, everyone has their soft and hard parts which it takes time to discover their own minds and body, I am loving myself more and thank you Pothos!

9 Dec 2020 - 10/10

Excellent back massage. Pressure and strokes were perfect. Pothos’ skill is such that his pressure was deep and firm without getting painful. Which I find really amazing! He even corrected my spine alignment for me which is the 1st in my life! I didn’t even know that it could be done this way.

As for the yoni component, it was deeply pleasurable. Just when I thought I had maxed out my orgasm quota for the night, Pothos decided that I should experience what it’s like to squirt. So while I begged for mercy, he took matters into his own hands and to my surprise, I found myself getting aroused again with his teasing touches. And then he somehow managed to give me my 1st squirting orgasm!

All in all, it was highly enjoyable and I slept really well that night.

13 Nov 2020 - 10/10

This was my second session with Po and it was even better then the first session and I thought you couldn’t top the first session. My body was more relaxed and receptive to pleasure and I was able to let go more which resulted in intenser orgasm.

I wanted to work on my ability to release fully (squirting). In the past I have been able to squirt a bit, but due to mental blocks I wasn’t able to squirt much. Po guided me skilfully and this time I was able to let go fully and it was an amazing experience.

I am writing this one day after the session and I am still feeling at a high. Thank you Po for the wonderful session.

27 Sep 2020 - 10/10

The pre discussion was extremely helpful to establish boundaries and that Pothos could understand my preferences. I was quite nervous when I arrived, but his personality and professionalism put me quickly at ease and the discussion before hand helped me to relax during the session

Pothos is very skilled in the massage part as well as the sensual part/yonie massage. The flow of the massage was perfect. I felt so save (sic) that I was able to completely relax and let go.

The sensual part and the yonie massage was deeply satisfying and beyond my expectations. I had multiple orgasm and it was such a blissful experience. After the session I felt that all the stress I had experienced in the last few weeks had released.

If you are not sure if you should give sensual massage a try, dont think any longer and book a session. I am sure you will not regret it.

23 Sep 2020 - 8/10

Pretty good.

22 Sep 2020 - 10/10

It was a truly relaxing session. Po is really skilled at massage techniques that effective and helps to relax tight and tensed muscles without any pain or lingering soreness. That preps the body and mind well for the sensual component.

He was very sensitive, assuring and respectful. At the end of the session it was a releasing and relaxing and session for both physically and mentally.

20 Sep 2020 - 10/10

I never could have imagined I would have been feeling so comfortable and safe with someone that is basically a stranger. Which is key if you want to really relax and focus on your own self mentality and physically. After 2 days I am still processing this mind blowing experience.

19 Sep 2020 - 9/10

Definitely a safe space to express myself. I was respected and encourage to be myself. It definitely an experience that everyone should have. Being a virgin and all, I was really apprehensive at first but when I was assured and respected. I was at ease throughout the session.

16 Sep 2020 - 10/10

Pothos was very professional yet personable. I have always had the issue with trusting others and I was pleasantly surprised and grateful that Pothos made me feel very at ease. He sat me through a brief but necessary 'intro' session in which I could share with him a little more about myself and what I knew or didn't know about sensual massage. He was calm and very patient as he explained details to me.

During the massage, I was eased into it pretty quickly because I could feel his professionalism. Yet, when it came to the sensual components, Pothos was consistent in the way he respected boundaries and telling me what he was about to do: be it massaging the traditional way or the sensual bits. I wasn't totally comfortable but I felt his firm yet gentle touch on my body, and his reminders for me to practise mindfulness. So I didnt hold back and was able to enjoy the session to the best of my benefits.

He also did a debrief with me and asked me to reflect on the session, detailing bits I liked or didn't like. All in all, I felt the good sense of connection with him and I'm glad I could be vulnerable and honest in my speech and expression of self. I'm thankful to him for my first session, and I'd strongly recommend him for anyone who is willing to open her heart and soul to enjoy a massage session with Pothos.

28 Jul 2020 - 10/10

Pothos was very patient and attentive to my needs. I experienced a lot of new and wonderful sensations, and the entire session was very pleasurable indeed. I still feel very relaxed and refreshed hours after.

26 Jul 2020 - 10/10

It was an awesome experience. I liked the way Pothos explained me at the start about the massage and what I was comfortable with..

I enjoyed the massage especially the yoni component.. This was my second time sensual massage..

I felt much lighter n relaxed after the massage... Would definitely follow up with Pothos in future as well..

18 Jul 2020 - 10/10

I've only had one other Yoni Massage experience before this and it wasn't very good, so I decided to take a leap of faith with Pothos and try out a more professional massage. Pre-massage, we talked about my boundaries and what I would like to explore/experience more of. And I was so surprised at how professional everything was! Pothos was very clear in the process and he kept checking with me if I feel comfortable and good.

During the massage, Pothos would keep checking if the amount of pressure he was using was alright and such. It made me feel very comfortable and relaxed. I thoroughly enjoyed the start, which was just a traditional massage and when he started to run his fingers over my erogenous zones I was surprised at how wet I had gotten already.

Heeding my moans, Pothos continued to lick my neck and my ears, showing me that I could get turned on even without fingering/kissing, which was the usual type of foreplay I was used to. Even before the actual yoni massage I was already dripping wet. But he definitely saved the best for last.

During the Yoni massage I actually managed to squirt/cum within a MINUTE of him rubbing my g-spot. It was an incredible sensation as I had not been able to squirt in over 6 years. His magical fingers and use of toys were amazing.

After the massage we talked about the experience while he set some hot stones onto me. It was definitely the best yoni massage I've ever had and I'll be back for more <3

17 Jul 2020 - 10/10

I personally am very shy and wasn't too sure what to expect at first but Pothos was very kind and thorough in explaining all details before and during the session.

Hot stones were used at the start to help me relax and meditate. In the massage component, he would constantly check in if the pressure applied was just right and all my knots were focused and massaged away.

The sensual massage was a good tease and steady build up to the yoni massage after. The body to body component was really intimate and I didn't know how sensitive my ears were until Pothos started breathing on them. He prompts and emphasises on feeling free to be vocal about what feels good and if I liked something/(if I didn't like something) be it in the form of words, moans or body language which made it a safe space to relax and enjoy the massage.

With that in mind it made the yoni massage way less daunting than it sounds but overall it was amazing. I didn't know that I was multi-orgasmic because it takes a bit for me to get there, nor did I know that I could squirt so easily.

At every step, Pothos asked for consent and explained briefly what he was going to do, and there were appropriate breaks in between where I could rehydrate. At the end of the session, my legs were so weak and shaky that I couldn't stand on my own so Pothos helped me to the bathroom to wash up and all that made me feel respected and appreciated.

Throughout the entire session, I definitely learnt more about my own body and started feeling less body conscious as there was absolutely no judgement. Overall, the experience was simply wonderful and mind opening. I'd encourage those who have just been contemplating for a while if you should give sensual massage a try (like I have) to just give it a go!

30 Jun 2020 - 9/10

It’s very good and Pothos respected all my boundaries.

27 Jun 2020 - 10/10

First time and a great experience for us. Therapist understand clearly what’s our preference, he explain clearly during the whole session.

27 Jun 2020 - 10/10

Excellent. The session progress gradually well and getting my partner slowly into the mood.

26 Jun 2020 - 10/10

This was my first encounter with sensual massage. I have heard about it and was quite skeptical to try it till I read the reviews and decided to experience this for myself.

Pothos was very relaxed, reassuring and took his time to explain everything. He made sure that I felt comfortable all the time and constantly checking if the pressure was ok. That helped me to relax and enjoy the process.

It was really quite arousing when he breathed on my ears and neck, even before the yoni massage I was already turned on. I didn't know that I could squirt and I’m glad I did, thanks to Po's amazing fingers! It was always hard for me to orgasm but he made it so easy!

Overall, it was a therapeutic experience and I had a really good sleep after the massage. I’m glad I engaged Pothos and looking forward to more sessions with him.

20 Feb 2020 - 9/10 Couple - Pothos & L

This was a new experience for us and the therapists did a good job of inculcating us into the whole process.

18 Feb 2020 - 10/10

Before the session began, Po made sure that everything was discussed clearly and that all questions were answered, ensuring that the session was tweaked according to my personal preference. The ambience was also set up with much care and consideration.

The massage started out relaxing and his skilled hands felt good on my aching muscles. He slowly progressed to the sensual aspect of it which included various forms of teasing. He made sure every step of the way that I was enjoying and would use my body language to gauge and tweak the massage accordingly. He also made sure to check in on me during and after the massage.

The yoni aspect felt amazing on too of it being educational as well as I learnt more about my body. I def squirted like nobody’s business. Highly recommended trying at least once be it to understand your body better or just as an indulgence. Definitely one you would not regret!

25 Jan 2020 - 8/10

Pothos was very professional, friendly and open in taking questions and sharing his knowledge/views. He came across as sincere and reassuring and put me at ease and made me feel comfortable from the start.

The massage was good and relaxing to start, and slowly progressed to become more arousing and pleasurable, and ended with some intense orgasms and squirting, the latter being a first for me.

Felt safe, comfortable and well guided throughout the session.

20 Jan 2020 - 10/10

This was my first time receiving a sensual massage and it was definitely an unforgettable experience! I had been searching online for a trustworthy contact to have this experience with for days, and when I chanced upon Sensual Massage Art’s website and read through the thorough information they provided, I knew that I had to give it a shot.

I submitted my request form online and was contacted by Pothos not long after. Through our conversation, he provided me all the information I needed to make me feel comfortable and confident to proceed with our meet up. He also provided excellent recommendations for hotels.

Before heading to the room, I had requested that we get drinks at a bar to ease my nerves before this experience as it was my first time. I learnt a lot about Pothos over drinks and was so drawn to what a genuine and humble person he was. I could tell that he was really passionate about massages and was very well read about the human body, which made me confident that I was in good hands.

When we proceeded upstairs to begin, he took out his bottle of massage oils, diffuser blends etc and started to set up the room while he continued our conversation. What really impressed me was when he took some massage oil and tested it on my wrists for any allergies, this is something that I’ve not seen when I go for regular massages but I was so awed that he took this step of precaution and it was one of the many displays of professionalism that I had encountered in the session.

We then had a very in depth discussion of my personal boundaries to clarify and personalise the kind of experience I would like during the massage.

Pothos has a very gentle but powerful touch in his massages. He guided me in the practice of mindfulness and was always checking to make sure that I was comfortable with what he was doing. With him, I could truly let go of my inhibitions and did not have to worry about anything at all.

As I’m a very easily ticklish person, I was impressed to see him try different massage techniques at areas where I’m more sensitive to ensure that I am enjoying myself. He is able to read body language well and is incredibly observant to how my body responds to his touch.

During the yoni massage component, I had learnt so much about my body that I had not known of before, and the whole experience was very eye opening and unforgettable. I felt that I had gone to a guru to learn more about my body that I know hours of research on google and “experiences” with partners had not suffice!!

Additionally, he is very receptive of feedback on what I liked/did not like and would take the time to also cuddle and pat me gently after each deep and intense experience during the session.

I would definitely recommend Pothos as I’m so marvelled with his professionalism and his astounding touch!! Thank you for such a memorable, eye-opening evening, I can’t wait for another session!! :)

25 Dec 2019 - 10/10

Enjoyed the session very much! Pothos made sure to explain and define boundaries clearly before beginning, making it feel like a safe space for exploring. He is open & fun to talk to, which makes it quite relaxed as well even though it's the first time meeting.

The sensual massage component was.. woah.. very pleasurable, felt pressure points that I wasn't even aware of, and learnt a lot about my own body. Hand & body pressure was great! Felt safe, and love the sensual experience. Muscles felt nice as well! Was nice to cuddle and talk too... Glad I decided to give this a go!

20 Dec 2019 - 9/10

Pothos was very professional about it, went through the details step by step, boundaries esp during the massage and yoni experience, if at any point of time I felt uncomfortable or do not want to go further, I have a right to stop or say no.

The massage was great, the sensual part was pretty decently good as well and the yoni experience - this is totally way out of what I have ever imagine how it will be.

It took me a while to contact Pothos again after the initial contact, being a more mature woman, it did not sit well at first to have someone much younger but I am glad I plucked up the courage and went for it. As for the vibrator, it might look scary, but I was game enough to go for it and boy oh boy! that gave me countless orgasms, waves and waves of them.

For someone who has not been in touch with my body for a good number of years, this experience really liberated me. I have not felt so alive again, it has been way too long, so thank you, Pothos!

6 Dec 2019 - 10/10

Pothos did a great job and I've already arranged a second session. For the first session, we met for coffee first where he clearly explained how the session would be conducted. During the actual session, he would explain before proceeding.

The pace was perfect and knew where and when to adjust the pressure. If he asks if you want to squirt, say yes!

It was my first time and I came out of the session feeling very relaxed. Everything that you read in the guide is on point for how the session is conducted.

5 Dec 2019 - 9/10

Nice experience. The massage was great clearly explained, the experience was great which never before been to this max.

2 Dec 2019 - 10/10

This is my 6th session with Pothos. He never fails to amaze me. This time around, he used wax massage as a form of treat for my birthday. I enjoyed the massage. Pothos was gentle as usual. He did not rush through and gave me ample time to enjoy the session. The entire session was sensual and soothing.

I feel that he is not there to just get his job done but to take the time to build relationships with his customers based on trust. Once again, thank you for the wonderful birthday treat!

18 Nov 2019 - 9/10

Wonderful sensual massage for my wife. Yoni massage was smooth and stimulating.

15 Nov 2019 - 8/10

For the first time i tried Sensual Massage, the therapist has soft fingers n gentle hands, but i cannot stand the ticklish as its my first especially his breath n my ears, i think others can, but for me I’m not used to it.

He has soft hands to touch my body which is a very nice feeling, love the massage, for the toy he tried hmm quite - I can’t explain well as my first time to experience too... lol... I think I will leave it to my partner if he wants me to try it again, for me to explore more about sensual massage.

I like the way Pothos does it bcz he brought along his stuffs like candles, music, scents, lights, haha to change the vicinity of the room, quite interesting, I can feel the relaxing room the way Pothos arrange it.

8 Nov 2019 - 8/10

Po was very professional throughout.

17 Sep 2019 - 7/10

Great.

10 Sep 2019 - 9/10

Great. Sensual part is excellent.

11 Aug 2019 - 8/10

I enjoyed all of the physical aspects of the massage. I felt very relaxed afterwards and slept very well. Mentally though, I've only experienced that with people I'm dating or in a relationship with so I realized that the intimacy part was missing.

It helped me realize that I do know and understand my body fully and my mental confirmed that what I'm looking for is a deeper connection with another human being since I'm already fully aware of myself.

10 Jul 2019 - 10/10

This is my second session with Pothos. As usual he was great. It was relaxing and just heavenly! Pothos brings you to another world.

Aside from this, I had wonderful interaction with him. This laid the foundation of building trust between us before and after the massage. I am looking for more sessions with him. A witty person with "Magic fingers" indeed!

19 Jun 2019 - 8/10

I will said every women is allow to endure this sensation massage. Pothos is great, he will make sure what is the level of acceptance and what things need to avoid before we start the massage, he is very gentlemen and not pushy. He did teach me to mediate before the massage session, which can release my tension. The soft kiss from my back and the bliss breath during the B2B session, when we have the skin contact which really bring me a lot of sensation. No doubt the yoni massage help me to explore my A spot and G spot. Photos really have a gifted hand which make me orgasm and squirt simultaneously.

The back massage is superb, the strength for every points is just nice and I like the bone cracking sounds to relax the tense shoulder and back. The tempo for the sensual massage is so nice, everything just flow so smooth and so naturally. Pothos is so great, we kiss unconsciously. I love the B2B session the most, there is a lot of sensation when skin contact with each other and I can feel the connection and energy from him.

This is the best birthday gift to my self, I really enjoy the session!

6 Jun 2019 - 10/10

The whole experience was intimately professional throughout, boundaries were respected & assurance was given beforehand. Its the journey, not the destination that matters. The body to body was exceptionally erotic, it really helped set the mood.

3 Jun 2019 - 8/10

He made me feel very relaxed and comfortable. He respected my needs and boundaries.

20 May 2019 - 10/10

Pothos was amazing! He delivered the best massage a woman could have asked for. He did not rush through the process and ensured that every little moment was enjoyed by the receiver. He also took time to know his clients before moving on by talking to them.

Aside from providing awesome massage and soft kisses down your body (which leads you to heaven... trust me), he is someone who also provides listening ears.

Thank you once again for assisting in my journey to self-discover myself!

17 Apr 2019 - 10/10

I had experienced a few firsts with Pothos. Such as him introducing the magic WAND, and his vagina massage was on point. He even make me squirt too.

Overall, Pothos was a true gentleman, and made sure I was comfortable and made sure to ask where the boundaries lie. He was not pushy, and gave real life examples of other ladies' experience and that helped me feel better.

He made sure I was comfortable and showed me how I can trust him with a little rough play (which was fun!). Finally made me squirt that easily!

11 Mar 2019 - 10/10 2 Guys 4 Hands Mike & Pothos

I walked in to the session with really high expectations and kind of skeptical of the two guys four hands massage, as I've tried the regular sensual massage with Mike before and that for me was already AMAZING and mind-blowingly good, so I was really wondering how the two guys 4 hands massage would top that experience I had! And I'm pretty sure everyone's heard the phrase "don't expect too much or you'll end up disappointed", but boy not only did that not happen, the two gentlemen surpassed my expectations and brought me to ecstasy at its very finest - without the need of anything other than fingers, lips, tongue, teeth (some biting <3) and their trusty vibrator ~

Once I got to the room they started off briefing me on what they would be begin with, and going through some things that will or might happen; ensuring my comfort then setting up the room with lights; spraying this heavenly scented thing; sterilizing the handy vibe; setting the bed and all, and once everything was done it was massage time!

Their massage on its own was already ideal, with the right pressure points and right pressure, amazing almost perfect synchronization (99.99% synchronised 0.01% deducted because of a small imbalance of pressure for a brief moment), great technique and perfect flow!

I could literally fall asleep right there and then, if not for their strategically planned moves - it felt like they made sure their fingers were hitting every single sensitive sensual spot on my body naturally, with the flow and, keeping me dripping wet the entire time before the yoni massage even started! Especially with four hands on your body it makes you feel like you're the most loved and pampered pet / brat / baby / queen ever!

And don't get me started on the yoni massage... it was exceptional... beyond words!!! It was ecstasy in its purest form!!! Thinking of the session after a day and I am still quivering from the mind boggling Orgasms (plural because I lost count of the times I came & squirted but a little cutie counted for me and it was probably 10 or so hahah) I had experienced. I was really thankful I had a long chat with Mike before, so he knew my preferences well enough - he decided to add anal stimulation into the mix while giving a yoni massage! Thank god there was 4 hands - I never knew I could ever experience such overwhelming overload of pleasure in the best damn way... I was a wet mess at the end of the session! But I felt completely liberated, relaxed and stress free finally!

The whole time that the massage was going on till the moment we had to part ways, nothing felt rushed or had to end abruptly. It was at a really comfortable flow, and after everything Mike and Pothos took the time to stay, cuddle, kiss and bring me back to reality gently - which I greatly appreciate!

From all the times I've talked to both gentlemen, it's really clear as day that both of them are really really professional and passionate about this amazing art, and because of their passion for MSM it 'shows' itself during the massage. You can literally feel the amazing connection with them at that moment, for an hour or two of ecstasy, followed by a few days up on fluffy cloud nine. An experience you can never get at a traditional massage parlour!

A (2 guys 4 hands) sensual massage is something I strongly believe everyone needs to try out for themselves once in their life! It's the best stress relieving remedy I've ever tried (and I've tried MANY), forces me to take a break from my hectic life, brings me to stop for a moment to relax, gave me the energy to move on with the ton of things I've got on my plate at the moment and gave me the luxury of another person's loving touch and connection (without having to get into a serious relationship or being too emotionally invested with someone new, when I'm not ready and don't want to; and yet, not feel like a one night stand where all connections and contact are cut off the next morning).

Especially with two guys and four hands, I can't say this enough but I literally felt like a pampered pooch and queen!

5 Mar 2019 - 10/10

Hola, I had my second sensual massage session - this round with Pothos. His approach was strong, with his wonderful hands that unlocked the knots on my neck and back. And rubbing over my legs, I loved the deep, strong strokes which intensified the pleasure. I felt extremely at ease, and sexually charged especially when he leaned forward closer, breathing down my neck and back. And as he pressed against me with all his manhood, my heart raced faster.

He had a great way of communicating, through his wondrous touch and narrative way of communication. I loved the way he got me breathless, with his fingers gripped firmly inside my vagina. It was beyond amazing how I felt naturally turned on when he kept giving me orgasms; I squirmed with body arched and squirted and, moaned in deep pleasure everytime he prodded inside me.

Pothos has sexy lips that was soft and thick, that could make me twitch at the slightest trace from it over my body! All this was so sexy and pleasurable, but especially how he held out for a long time when he gave me a thoroughly enjoyable happy-ending. Pothos is as powerful as they come. He is a force of nature, naturally gifted and the one to watch for!

27 Feb 2019 - 7/10

I had a good experience of sensual massage with Pothos… He was friendly… respectful…

For Yoni masssge… I orgasm multiple times… Squirt is shiok… Make mi sleepy after tat… Had many wonderful moments….

16 Dec 2018 - 8/10

The masseur was very professional and respectful. He respected all my boundaries and made me feel very relaxed from the very start of the massage. Highly recommend him.

15 Dec 2018 - 10/10

Pothos was very patient and understanding about what I want. Made me feel comfortable and relaxed so that I can really enjoy all the pleasures. I can even squirt for the first time of my life. I like the body to body contact/massage. Makes it very comfortable and intimate and arousing at the same time.

16 Oct 2018 - 10/10

It was good. Felt extremely relaxed after the session.

Thoroughly enjoyed the session. Pothos is very approachable even outside the bedroom so it was easy to be comfortable with him. Thank you for the wonderful time!!! again again!!!

7 Oct 2018 - 10/10

Very sensual & great experience

6 Oct 2018 - 8/10

As this was my first time to do a sensual massage; left it to the therapist to do and explore whatever and wherever that he may deem fit based on his experience.

3 Sep 2018 - 8/10

This time yoni massage was abit weird because it was almost due to that time for the month for me so I'll probably have to try again. Haha

23 Aug 2018 - 10/10

Enjoyed the session thoroughly and it was a most sensory experience without neglecting the massage element .

22 Jul 2018 - 9/10

I had my first yoni massage session with Pothos on Wednesday night. He had a chat with me before the session started, gave me a heads-up on what was going to happen and how would the massage be conducted.

After the chat, I was left alone to disrobe while he went to change in another room. When he returned, he started with full body massage. I really enjoyed myself. I felt relaxed and almost dozed off.

He moved on to the yoni component during the last part of the massage session. I was kind of shy as this was the first time I allowed a male stranger (well, I only knew him for less than 2 hours!) to insert his fingers into my vagina. However Pothos was very professional. He’s not a pervert who’s trying to get into ladies' pants. In fact, he was more focused on how I felt whenever he changed the thrusting/massage motion. I am the type who finds it hard to reach orgasm. But I’m glad I still managed to cum. Pothos is not someone who keeps looking at the clock as he does the job. He’s more concerned if I’m benefiting/enjoying the session.

11 Jun 2018 - 10/10

Had a sensual massage by @pothosd on Friday - he's really good at what he does, genuinely listens to and respects your wishes, and is open and communicative. Oh, and he made me cum pretty hard HAHA.

Ladies, if you want to feel respected and relaxed, you should think about getting a sensual massage. This is not a sponsored post, I just think it was a really great experience to lie back and have someone else pleasure me so holistically.

After talking about boundaries, he talked me through what was going to happen during the session and then gave me some time to change.

We started with a traditional massage on my back (using the most wonderful lavender scented oil!) and then a sensual massage on my front - with just the right mix of firm and gentle touches - before moving downwards for a pussy massage, which I never thought I needed till I had one hahaha.

After the massage my body felt much more relaxed and loose, and my mind felt clearer too.

2 May 2018 - 7/10 2 Guys 4 Hands Mike & Pothos

In another opportunity with Mike & Pothos, I was able to be their test model for their 4 Hands Massage trial session. While they still had room for improvement (i.e. choreographing a smoother massage routine that flows better altogether & to better exert similar pressure together), having someone massaging your upper back and legs at the same time was awesome man!

Both of them were receptive to feedback and were passionate in exchanging pointers with each other for better coordination during the massage experiment.

The overall experience made me feel like such a queen in their hands and I would seriously recommend it for all of you to try it out once they have perfected their routine!

17 Apr 2018 - 9/10

It was my first time having a massage of any kind, let alone a sensual massage, so I had to make sure I knew what was in store for me by asking Pothos all sorts of questions; i.e about his experiences & how does it work etc. He responded with honesty and clarified any doubts with assurance that there will be no pressure to continue or whatsoever if I were to feel uncomfortable at any point of time during the period of the massage.

Right before we began, Pothos went through a breakdown of the full 2 hour session & discussed about boundaries with me once more in a professional manner.

Throughout the massage, he tweaked the pressure accordingly to my request as I was feeling rather ticklish & had quite a low tolerance to pain at some certain parts of my body. For most of the time though, his touch was still in a right mix of a firm yet gentle kind of pressure.

As for the sensual massage… It was unexpectedly great as it made me more aware of my body than I already was. My sensitivity was gradually heightened as well which was a very welcoming eye-opener for me. Pothos knew what he was doing exactly because I felt like I was being tuned like an instrument in his hands & was slowly melting in pleasure!

Overall, it was such a comfy and calming session that we didn’t realize 3 hours had passed! My body felt softer afterwards; like less tense than before and I was feeling very relaxed to the point that I wanted to doze off immediately after the session ended.

I highly recommend Pothos not just because he is skillful but also, he is an understandingly nice fella who is respectful and trustworthy.