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Confession

Sometimes, the weeks are long and work is demanding - we all get this occasionally (hopefully not all the time!). I remember the run-up to my recent session with F as being very hectic and, internally, I wasn't happy with the amount of time I had set aside beforehand to plan out our session.

Life's like that though - sometimes the going gets tough and we just have to find it within us to make what we can, with what we have. At times like these, going back to fundamentals and drawing from experience really helps.

Side note - a few days before the session, F asked me what to expect. I gave her a very brief answer and said - leave it to me! Actually, I hadn't had the time to work out the details yet! 😅 Ok, now the cat's out of the bag!

My pre-planning consisted of knowing which location I wanted to bring her to, as well as figuring out an inverted order of events - where we start from a sensual massage first, then proceed to a late dinner, followed by outdoor shenanigans and lastly, back to the hotel room for our close.

I did think through things, and the primary reason for the change in order was because, for outdoor public shoots, it's only late at night when human traffic clears. Past midnight, places outside become less busy and offer opportunities for exhibitionism with a much lower chance of being 'caught'. The place I wanted to bring her for dinner, was coincidentally nearby the location I earmarked before for some interesting public exhibitionist play.

Reconnecting

Rushing down after work, I recall being slightly late as well, and that generally frustrates and irritates me (I just don't like to be late - I really value the time that all of us have!). Starting with a sensual massage definitely worked out well - as much as the session was for F, it also helped me to re-center myself and get back to my own inner space after several days of tension from work.

I don't like to give sessions when I'm in the wrong headspace - distracted, thinking about work, etc. F would feel it, and that would be doing the time we set aside a disservice. As such, I took an especially long time at the beginning to recalibrate myself and that seemed to work, because, as the night progressed, all other distractions eventually faded away. 👌

The sensual massage was an intense, connectional and intimate experience. All I can say is that - what I seek in a session is simply freedom and connection. The freedom to be ourselves without judgement and the connection that makes everything that's experienced beautiful.

Together - we managed to find it, that sweet spot between naughty and nice, the balance between intimacy and objectification, the fun of using and being used - so many diametric opposites explored in what seemed like a short time! p.s. it wasn't short, on the scale of 2+ hours, it's just that time always seems short!

Post-massage, both of us lying down exhausted and spent, the temptation was high to just order in room service and chill out the rest of the evening. But, I'm glad we didn't, because a second round of adventures awaited us both! Remember, I hadn't planned much except the general flow of activities. Plus, how could we ignore the fully charged Lush 3 that's just sitting there pretty, and, so ready to be used? 😈

Dinner

Inserting the Lush 3 in F, we eventually dragged ourselves out the door to get ourselves some much-needed sustenance. My plan was to leave the Lush inside and slowly let her forget about it, only then would I use the remote to turn it on. Unexpected surprises are always the best, right? 😈

Speaking about unexpected surprises, we arrived at the restaurant 10 minutes too late, and missed the last order. We managed to roll with the punches, however, and did a quick re-plan of what was possible (it's surprising how many food places close early when pre-covid, everywhere was still bustling at 10pm). One thing led to another (long story!) and we finally ended up at Swee Choon for a decent Tim Sum dinner.

In terms of setbacks - I like to think that when things don't go according to plan - THAT's when our adventure begins. So I'm usually never too frustrated when an unexpected cog gets thrown into the gears of life. As long as we're going with the flow, enjoying the time and company - is there anything to be too concerned about? This evening though, was starting to turn out to be a series of fortuitous accidents - little did we realize.

After dinner, it was time to put the Lush to work - and I turned it on the moment we stepped out of the restaurant.

A 'Lush' Drive

Driving back to our planned location, even though I knew the usual (and shorter) way there, I decided to take an alternate route because (1) my GPS indicated a path which I had never driven before, and (2) the direction we would be driving in was totally new to me (and who doesn't enjoy discovering something new?).

The alternative road itself turned out to be quite the adventure, spooky and at one point, no more street lamps and an almost pitch darkness while driving down a tiny gravel path. It wasn't even paved! We have a video somewhere of that part of the drive.

While we were exploring this hidden gem right smack in what's only a few km away from the Singapore Flyer and the Bay, F accidentally let slip that she was getting orgasms from the Lush coupled with the bumpiness of my car driving on an uneven road. Oh, that sounded like too much fun to ignore! So I naturally started driving a little faster and looking out for bumps in the road that I could 'exploit' 😈

I also decided to throw in the added sensory play of my fingernails lightly scratching against her inner thighs at opportune moments. 😈

At this point, I remember being thankful that I had read up the user manual for the Lush 3 - and recall that it has a fully charged battery life of 4 to 5 hours with continuous usage... No need to conserve batt - just keep her going!!!

Finally, after having to backtrack when we reached a dead end, we made another long drive back to our original planned destination - time well spent, as I found out afterwards - F experienced 8 or 9 orgasms during the drive itself!

Exhibit A

Alighting at our destination, we walked a little before reaching our final pit stop of the night - some floating platforms on top of the Singapore river! Getting there requires one to climb over a small fence with a no-entry sign - but let's just say I didn't see it - if caught, I can only say, 'acting blur' is a great skill that has never let me down..! 😜

Spending some time to admire the view, we trekked around the location and took in the beautiful sights of the city juxtaposed with water and nature. Late at night, it does exude a different ambience, a different beauty and a different vibe (pun intended!). It was great to take it all in and be present and mindful of the moment.

Trying out several angles for shots, (amidst looking out for passerby's - there were still people around at the stroke of midnight!) we finally nailed one pretty shot that I shall share here.

An end to the evening/night

Finally, as it grew late, it was time to get back. There were some additional few shenanigans back at the hotel, but I'll leave that to your fertile imagination to fill in the blanks 😈

A shower and after packing everything, and interspersed with many huggsss, we finally bid goodbye and goodnight, another amazing memory shared and filed away for posterity.

Cheers, Mike 😘😘😘

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