What's the point, really? Sensual Massage & Domination with F
My (Mike's) personal recollections of amazing moments shared, published with permission of all person(s) involved. Though hosted on SMA’s site, these writings may not specifically be about sensual massage but are simply my journey, experiences and musings about life, the universe and everything in-between.
MUSINGS
Sometimes, I wonder, what are sessions/scenes for?
Is there any point beyond pure momentary pleasure, a flash in the pan that lasts for a moment and is forgotten over time? (Not that there's anything wrong with that - the hedonist in me loves giving and receiving pleasure just because - no other reasons required!)
For me, I've found a personal preference for sessions to have some aspects of meaning and purpose. A change in mindset; Healing of our whole person; A newfound freedom of expression; Acceptance of our true nature; A deeper connection - these and more transform a great session into a transcendent one.
While perhaps not exactly on a transcendent level, I've had a pretty darn close one recently with F - a session filled with meaning, healing, mindset changes and more.
As with many amazing sessions, our interaction and communication began many weeks before we actually met. Understanding the whole person and vice versa, allowing her to understand me.
A dinner before the session was the first time we met (wow). However, it felt more like a reunion of sorts, because our discussions over chat had already built bridges towards mutual understanding. Chatting in person served to confirm our mental images of each other, and what we wanted / were looking for.
CONNECTION
The session with F started simply, with a back massage that helped us calibrate some physical elements of pressure, general body sensitivity as well as become familiar with simple, shared skinship.
F can take heavy pressure, and that hinted to me that impact play might be enjoyable and that her tolerance level for it may be decently high. From our conversations, I made a mental note to deviate slightly from the initial routine I planned, to detour and explore more dominance elements, later on (it was a possibility that we discussed before the session, so I had consent).
Slowly, as I took my time releasing knots and tensions in her back, the relaxing of physical tightness in her muscles corresponded to a similar mental relaxation and general lowering of barriers, walls and defenses between us.
AROUSAL
As barriers came down, touch took on a different significance, my fingertips tracing lines of fire and ice as they roamed all over her body. The slightest touch, scratch and bite escalating the intensity further.
From smaller contact areas, we moved on to larger and larger areas of skin on skin - until it finally peaked with a full-on, body to body melding of one person into the other. 🔥
F really did listen to my thoughts about finding the flow, and giving ourselves freedom to respond naturally. It's about removing mental barriers, concerns about being judged, and letting our true instincts take over.
In doing so, F responded viscerally, physically and audibly! 😍 Ok - F is one of the loudest persons I've come across, and that's hot (because it's real and unfiltered - fake loudness is NOT hot! Real-ness is HOT!!!) 🤫
Usually, b2b can be done with varying degrees of dominance - in this case I found the more dominant expression of it to be in our flow, a primal growling, pinning, full pressure, taking control and expressing (my) raw desire of the moment - that want, that need to conquer her all.
That intensity, and buildup, quickly pushed F to the first of many orgasms of the night... I certainly wasn't planning on stopping until I judged her body to be suitably exhausted (probably around 70%, as F was new and I did not want to push her too far)!
A SAFARI RIDE OF SENSATIONS
As someone new to sensual massage as well as BDSM, I did promise to introduce F to a whole range of touch sensations and thus a change in position was warranted.
On her back, we continued a primal exploration of her body - her full breasts were delightfully sensitive and such fun to play with! Experimenting with mild slapping and biting of the breasts, I can only say there is capacity for heavier stimulation and more research will be required ;)
Moving on to the yoni massage, we progressed through a variety of touch sensations and this segment was actually quite long - multiple vibrators, the nJoy dildo, combinations of clit and a/g-spot and nipple stimulation - many things were explored and enjoyed.
Fingers especially, led to her first of several intense squirts. A natural, she managed to relax and release into a puddle of delightful, messy, wetness, a total abandonment of proprietary of self, a vulnerability I thoroughly enjoyed and reciprocated!
In interactions, I've found myself consistent in this - I want to see us at our true selves and be able to encourage, exult and revel in who you (we) are.
To me, that openness and vulnerability is the ultimate in beauty and sexiness - a transforming of something usually perceived as shameful into a deeper acceptance and appreciation of the other.
INTIMACY
Being demi-sexual with a responsive libido, I do pre-empt others that I cannot guarantee that I would be aroused during a session (many interesting and semi-hilarious stories on this, for another day!!!), especially when it's a first time meeting the other person. It's just me. And there is nothing wrong with either being physically aroused or not being physically aroused - the quality of our interactions do not merely depend on one factor but many.
Thus, I usually do not plan for, nor encourage intimacy in first time sensual massage sessions. I used to have a stance that first time sessions would never have any intimacy - however, this has evolved over time to allow for rare exceptions (always with protection - please practice safety above all else!!!).
However, in this case - things seemed to align and felt appropriate. We had discussed this earlier and after seeking consent, we proceeded. It was another delightful journey of new sensations, sensory delights and experimentation with multiple and different combinations of vibrator stimuli as well as impact play and dominance components all in one!
WINDING DOWN & AFTERMATH
Our total time in session was around 2+ hours... Not too bad! Finally collapsing in a pile of goo, juices, sweat, blood (yes :P), some tears (from F?) we enjoyed the bliss of happy exhaustion.
The rest is history, and of course - I thoroughly enjoy making history come alive!!! ;)
Cheers, Mike 😘😘😘