My (Mike's) personal recollections of amazing moments shared, published with permission of all person(s) involved. Though hosted on SMA’s site, these writings may not specifically be about sensual massage but are simply my journey, experiences and musings about life, the universe and everything in-between.

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I’ve spoken out many times, with personal friends, as well as in writing, about my passions and ideals that stand the test of time - things that, to me are worth putting my time and energy into, because they mean something to me. It’s also always gratifying too, to meet others with their own strong personal convictions - and helping each other (where aligned) in achieving them.

One of these enduring motifs that come up consistently for me, is about sharing the beauty of sensual massage with others, whether from an educational perspective, or simply in experiencing a session for oneself.

In this, lately, I’ve discovered a newfound passion for coaching and teaching - because that spark, the understanding you see in their eyes, the ‘aha!’ moment where it all falls into place - that is a truly amazing moment to share! An achievement, not of your own, but of connecting a small part of something greater and bigger than yourself, with someone else.

A recent session with couple L & S helped to re-ignite that spark, and inspired me to keep on digging deeper, learning and communicating more. I’m stoked to share (with their permission), post-session feedback that contributed to more positive moments, intense, intimate and deeper connections between them!

My wife and I arranged for a private workshop with Mike on sensual massage (Level 1), about a week ago. This review has taken a while to come because I've been completely exhausted in the late evenings the past week since our workshop; while we firmly agree with Mike that sensual massages don't necessarily need to lead to anything else, I'm afraid ours consistently did, such was the magic of the touches that Mike taught us.

And mind you, the connection between my wife and I is already pretty strong in the first place, and we're no strangers to physicality, sensual touches, and a good horizontal workout (or three) every week. But what the workshop did was to help me learn better about the touches that she loves, and use them in a coherent, flowing manner.

To Mike's credit, his bedside manners were impeccable. In the early stages of our Telegram chat, I shared my concerns that she was rather conservative, and might not warm up too quickly to him. Mike was very clear about the boundaries, and understood how we can progressively ramp up the contact on a respectful, needs-based manner.

Before we knew it, Mike's carefully-worded and professional explanations helped her become putty in his hands, most literally. After his demonstrations on her back, neck and shoulders, followed by hands-on practice for me, we moved to her lower half (where I now know her erogenous zones are very much concentrated). For the first time, she willingly removed her panties for another man, and I was treated to sights of her being sensually massaged on her buttocks and inner thighs, and then got the chance to practise on her under Mike's close supervision. It helped that Mike was willing to demonstrate the touches on me too, to let me get a sense of how the receiver feels. All these was important to me, because it showed me how much she trusted Mike, and trusted me in having established our boundaries.

I've since practised the strokes and touches, almost on a nightly basis, and she raves about how my massages are so much better now. It's made a big difference to our nocturnal activities too (I've been sleeping less, but I'm not complaining!). I'd highly recommend this workshop to couples who might be more reserved but keen to learn something together.

As for us? I myself would love to move on to Levels 2 and 3 soon, but it seems like that will need some time. To Mike's credit, my wife's not so keen at this moment, not because of any deficiency on Mike's part. In fact, it's because she doesn't trust herself. In her words, "under his touch, it's very easy to quickly agree to other things I might regret later". And so, I shall patiently wait till we find the right time to move on further.

Thanks again, Mike. We owe you, and I hope to be back :)

Thank you too, L & S for your kind words and thoughts. Much appreciated, they have also made a difference to me.

Wishing them, and you, dear reader, many more sensual and connective experiences to come!

Cheers, Mike 😘😘😘

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