My (Mike's) personal recollections of amazing moments shared, published with permission of all person(s) involved. Though hosted on SMA’s site, these writings may not specifically be about sensual massage but are simply my journey, experiences and musings about life, the universe and everything in-between.

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Before the current round of restrictive measures kicked in, I had a great session that was both challenging yet rewarding and enjoyable with fellow Fetlifer S.

Rewarding and enjoyable because we managed to connect and have a good experience. One that went beyond a momentary ‘flash-in-the-pan’ pleasure, combining elements of self-discovery, mindset change as well as building great memories.

Challenging because - my session brief was for an all-external session without any penetration. In a way, it felt like asking me to compose a song but, only use ‘do, mi, fa, so, ti’ and leave out the notes ‘re, la’. Or to please cook a tasty, nutritional meal but, without using any salt and spices. Certainly, it is doable, however some richness in experience may potentially be lost.

Why? Because internal to the Yoni contains the A, G and P spots, locations that usually provide a different sort of pleasure that's complementary to external clit stimulation. Based on feedback (in general), internal stimulation gives a more full-body holistic pleasure, and also usually has a shorter refractory period vs. clit orgasms, making multiple and stacked orgasms easier to achieve.

Nevertheless, we all have our boundaries and reasons for requests, and it is important to respect that, as well as seek the connection and beauty in what is mutually comfortable.

On that note, my concerns about any perceived difficulties were largely unfounded, and an overall positive experience was had by all. Shared below are S's thoughts about the session, reproduced with her permission here.

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When Mike was recommended by a fellow Fetlifer, I had a long read of his profile. I found the idea of Sensual Massage very interesting and intriguing. I've had massages before, so I was like, what's so different about this? Started speaking to him via Tele for about a month. He is very knowledgeable about his skill and was very patient in answering my questions. Even though we had not met face-to-face during this period, I felt I could trust him.

We spoke about boundaries and some idea of what would be done during the session. Since I was having a solo staycation close to the weekend, we decided to meet at the hotel I was at. Met him at the lobby in the afternoon and we just chatted while on the way to the room. It didn’t feel like we had just met for the first time. I was really comfortable in speaking to him.

Once in the room, he proceeded to setup for the session. Had a short briefing on what sensual massage is about and how the flow of the session will be. Got into the face-down position on the bed, naked. Mike started by rubbing the massage oil over my back with firm strokes.

I loved the pressure he used as it was just nice. I had gone for massages where I had more pain after the massage than before. He constantly communicated, letting me know if he was moving to another area on my body. That’s a huge plus! I’m a big sucker for back and shoulder massages so definitely no complaints there. I could feel myself relaxing slowly. He gave enough focus on my upper back and shoulders, which I was very grateful for as I constantly had aches due to work stress.

Truly loved the fact that I was able to touch him during these moments as I’m quite a touch-feely person and I use touch as a response mechanism.

Moving downwards to my butt, I had no idea there were so many pressure points but it felt awesome. He then transitioned to my thighs. Fingers moving up and down, so so close to my pussy but not quite touching. I was seriously wanting to be touched but he focused on the outer area.

Went on to my feet, and I got tensed for a second as they are very ticklish. However, the pressure points were spot on and continued to the calves. Going back up to my thighs, he pressed himself against my back, moving up and down slowly. Blowing air into my ears made me ticklish but wasn’t too bad.

Fingers trailed to my pussy lips and worked on my clit. Oh my god! He kept going on till I had a few orgasms. Moaning so much, I was breathing hard when he stopped.

Asking me to turn face up, he placed the blindfold on me and told me to relax. Moving to stand above my head, his firm hands worked on my shoulders and along my collarbone. Transitioning down to my breasts, he focused on them together and then individually, pinching my nipples, licking and slightly biting on them. They are just too sensitive and I was more turned on.

To be honest, I was eager to have another set of orgasms. Massaging my tummy, his hand trailed down to my pussy lips again while at the same time he had me in something like a mini-hug (I think that’s how I could describe it). I was literally grabbing his arm, with my face pressed against his shoulder, shaking from orgasm after orgasm.

Session slowly came to a close with both of us having a nice hug and having a small chat about the session.

I was truly amazed by Mike’s professionalism and how he put me at ease quickly. All boundaries were respected and I appreciate that a lot.

I knew that this session was going to be different but also be a wonderful experience for me. An area which I had not explored before and I’m glad I took that first step.

On the overall, a session to never forget.

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I’m truly appreciative and humbled by her feedback, and inspired yet again to continue learning, growing and exploring further...

May you, dear reader, also likewise be inspired to truly connect and create your own amazing moments and experiences too!

P.s. Do stay safe and sane during this mini-restrictive period, let's both count our blessings as well as do our best to help others in need around us as well! 💪

Cheers, Mike 😘😘😘

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