Code of Conduct

We are a collective body of sensual massage enthusiasts with one vision - "Sharing superlative sensual massage experiences with the world!"

This code of conduct is one that all listed givers pledge to abide by.

Violations of this code mean censure and removal from our register. You may report violations through our review form on our contact page.

We believe in the following:

Discretion and privacy

  • All communication to be treated privately and with discretion.

Mutual respect

  • We respect you as an individual, your boundaries, and preferences communicated. At any time, should you indicate you do not want us to partake in any action(s), we will adjust and/or stop. At the same time, such respect towards the giver is also expected.

  • We adopt a de-escalation model for setting of boundaries in a session. This means that in the session briefing (on the day of, but prior to a session start) any boundaries set will never be crossed (your giver will never persuade you into changing your mind from a “No” to a “Yes” mid-session), but you may de-escalate at any time and change your “Yes” to a “No” mid-session.

Non-judgmental and open

  • We do not kink shame or judge anyone for their preferences. Feel free to share them with us!

  • This extends to comments that you feel may hurt the giver’s feelings, you should be open and share as far as possible, because this leads to the best outcomes (e.g. I’m not attracted to you / the pressure you use is too painful / that’s too intimate for me / this action is not working for me). Givers understand and are trained to process such input in a constructive manner.

Integrity

  • We do not condone pressure tactics or deceit and overt persuasion. Our approach is one of open sharing and the focus is on providing you with all the information you need to decide on your experience preferences. In light of this, feel free to ask us anything and everything - answers will be open, direct and honest.